How do I get my husband to quit bugging me to be with a woman?

My husband and I have been married for almost 3 years now and he is constantly bothering me to be with another woman and also he wants to be with her. I just am sick of telling him no and him still bringing it up. He knows I have been with girls before when I was young but I just want to be a happily married couple with a family. What can I tell him to get him to stop asking?How do I get my husband to quit bugging me to be with a woman?
Tell him that in no uncertain terms he will stop this disrespectful, illicit and disgusting request. If he does not, changes will be made. The next time he brings up the topic, say nothing, but sleep in another room.


When he leaves for work, change the locks on all of the doors %26amp; windows. Put his clothes in the travel luggage and set them outside the door with a note that reads: ';I do love you but you refuse to love %26amp; respect me. You will not be in my home or in my life as long as you insist on living porn fantasies and disrespecting me any further.';





[ Don't know how long he's been watching porn, this is a definite sign that it's been going on for a long time. Check the 'history' of your home computer.]





Follow through. Stand-up for yourself, gather your friends %26amp; family support group. Tell him that you will meet with him... only with a marriage counselor present. Let your phone(s) take all of the calls and messages he will make. When he agrees to your terms, then you may have a chance to regain the man you love and married and he may have a new respect for you.How do I get my husband to quit bugging me to be with a woman?
The truth is, he wants to cheat on you with this woman, but he doesn't want to lose you. If he can get you to be with this woman, then he has the excuse he needs to be with her too. I'm sure he is also hoping to have a three some with the both of you.





Tell your husband, what you told us and also that you are sorry he doesn't want to have a normal marriage, but you do and if he ever ask you to be with this woman or anyone else ever again, then there is no point in the two of you staying together. Either he accepts and loves you for the way you are or it's over. If he tries to argue with you and continues the subject of this woman, then yell at him, ';DID YOU HEAR ME? I'M SICK OF THIS AND I DON'T EVER WANT YOU TO BRING THIS SUBJECT UP TO ME AGAIN OR I'M GOING TO LEAVE YOU. PERIOD!!!!!!!! Now shut up or get out!
I would focus on it remaining a fantasy. Ask if he if really wants to risk everything for a night of a threesome, of course that would diminish the fantasy because there has to be a hint that it could come true to make it real as a fantasy.





I would probably ask just after sex with him, when he will not have sex as high on the totem pole.





Maybe try to find a new fantasy for him.
Wow, sucks to be you. I think I’d have to stoop to his level, I’d ask “do I get to pick the guy or do you,” Oh, and honey after your finished packing fudge, your bags will be waiting for you, don’t let the door hit you in the@$$…
Tell him you want to be with him and another man and see how he reacts! I'm sure he'll say no, so ask him how he'd feel if you kept pestering him about something he was absolutely not going to do. If he realizes how annoying he is, he may stop. Just a thought!
Give in..He seems to have this need and seriously..if he doesn't get it from you and if he becomes obsessed about it..he very well may go find it somwhere else. Alteast at home you can have a controlled environment.
I find that weird. I thought long time married couples were into that deal. LIke the ones in their 40's and have been married for over 15 yrs. I guess I am wrong on this. Try getting him away from internet porn, that might help. GL
Perhaps you could tell him you are well aware of his wish, and if you ever change your mind, you will let him know, but meanwhile the answer is no and you are really tired of hearing about it.
Like others have said: Ask him to to get with a DUDE!Tell him you are emotionally connected with him and do not need anyone else! Tell him he is offending you. He just wants to get a fresh piece of meat!
Tell him you're leaving. And be serious about it. The past is the past and you're being honest. He may as well say he wants to bang your friends with your consent. Why do you put up with it?
just put your foot down and make it clear to him that you ARE NOT going to do that so he can stop asking
He probably has nothing else to look forward to so just do it.
Ask him how he feels about being with another man..that might just shut him up!

lancome

clinique

How can I convince my husband that cats are not disgusting?

He likes dogs but not cats because he fully believes that cats carry more diseases than any other pet and that it's not healthy to have one around. Ofcourse I disagree with him because I had both cats and dogs growing up and didn't have problems with either.How can I convince my husband that cats are not disgusting?
You shouldn't have to convince him. You are an adult, and he should respect your wishes just as much as you are respecting his.How can I convince my husband that cats are not disgusting?
Cats clean themselves?? I think that's obvious. I'm not wild about cats, but it's always nice petting my friend's cat because she's so clean and soft. My dog however, I love him to death, but he's always filthy. Plus, if you vaccinate your cats, then there's not much concern for a disease now is there? Maybe he's just worried of your cats catching some diseased rodent or something and bringing it to you guys as a gift (which I think is adorable, but that's just me).
cats are fine as long as u give them the correct injections and get them spaded or neuted, i think i fact they are cleaner as they will not have acciendents over the house, they pretty much use their litter trays straight away, and tell your husband u don`t have to walk a cat...lol
buy one


if he asks where your going just say to the store or something,then shoot out for the pet store buy one bring it home and tell him he'll have to live with it cuz its not leaving and if he says it is then you could tell him to leave.I bet he wont leave and i bet he'll get used to it.





Briana





good luck
I'm not comparing cats and dogs but cats are very clean animals and try to keep themsleves clean by continous grooming (licking their fur), rubbing against surfaces to get rid of old fur hair, and always covering their feces with either mud or kitty litter...like we flush our toilets after going.
Well, you probably never will, it sounds like his mind is made up and no amount of oyur prodding will change it. I grew up on a farm and I can not understand peoples adversion to some animals. My wife is a city girl with her own beliefs about what animals are ';dirty';. to her cats and dogs are okay, but a cow is dirty...I have no problems with any of them..
The common household fly is actually one of the cleanest species around because they constantly clean themselves, yet there is still a general misconception that they are dirty.





I suppose that is the same way for cats. I grew up with both cats and dogs, and while I prefer dogs, cats clean themselves constantly. That is why they are always hacking up hairballs.
he is just saying that because cats are prissy little ******* of a species, they lounge around all day, scratch everything, including husbands, shed everywhere, and are about as loyal as a piece of raw meat.





they think they own the house, when its us who are buying their food and scooping their crap out of a smelly box, while they take up your lapspace and attention, not to mention your affection.





so basically, he dosnt want to tell you that he hates cats, because women who like cats, dont like men who hate them.
I don't think you can convince him because he is right. They do carry diseases and can give you ring worms. They are not safe to be around pregnant women nor children.





Please help control the unwanted pet population. Have your animal spayed or neutered
maybe you just have to prove it to him. get a cat and keep it well.
You can't convince him because they are disgusting and terribly filthy.
you probably will not beable to convince him......you are either a dog person or a cat person
cats are so gross!! that's why.... and they do carry so many nasty diseases
cats are nasty little animals
i dont think u can convince him...his mind is made up..sorry
Maybe it's the thought of having a poop box in your house.
Tell him that dogs are more dirty than cats. This is true, dogs cant use the litter box. they have to go outside a take a poop and they come home with dirty paws and step all over you house which leaves germs. Plus they smell bad after a run.
Cats are not disguisting, they are cleaner than any other animal. You earn your respect from cats, they don't just give it to you like dogs. Negative side is cleaning the litter box which can be very dangerous for pregnant women.





How do people get toxoplasmosis?


A Toxoplasma infection occurs by:





Accidentally swallowing cat feces from a Toxoplasma-infected cat that is shedding the organism in its feces. This might happen if you were to accidentally touch your hands to your mouth after gardening, cleaning a cat's litter box, or touching anything that has come into contact with cat feces. Eating contaminated raw or partly cooked meat, especially pork, lamb, or venison; by touching your hands to your mouth after handling undercooked meat. Contaminating food with knives, utensils, cutting boards and other foods that have had contact with raw meat. Drinking water contaminated with Toxoplasma. Receiving an infected organ transplant or blood transfusion, though this is rare.
Ask your Vet, then just go get the cat and he will learn to live with it. . . or be in the dog house














That should be worth 10 points!
Buy a cat but dress it up like a dog.
My husband does not like cats either ...but he has no choice in the matter lol ..I have 3 cats and deep down i know he loves them!!!
Its your personal understandings.. If he has instances wherein his friends have suffered from deseases, then he will never agree to bring cats at home.. U will have to convince him by saying that u will take the responsibility of keeping the in-house people healthy along with the cat..
Maybe try doing some research and finding scientific studies that prove that cats do not harvest more diseases than dogs. You can also consult a veterinarian in your area and book an appointment to have them discuss it with your husband. By taking the rational/educated approach he cannot argue that you are being emotional about getting a cat or are making things up.





And of course, if all else fails, bring a ferret home and let him realize how clean cats really are in comparison :).
He needs to be exposed to a cat that is well cared for, clean %26amp; attracts him. Men seem to like the spotted wild look. Find someone with a bengal, egyptian mau, ocicat, savannah, or some sort of ';wild'; exotic looking cat with lots of character %26amp; no bad habits.
Throw one on his face while he's sleeping!!!!

How can I help my husband to get his son motivated?

My stepston will be 26 yrs old this Sunday. He's the father of a 4 yr old and an 18 month old and all three of them live with us. My stepson has had 1 job in the last year. My husband has talked-and yelled-until he's ';blue in the face';. If it were just the 2 little ones, my husband would have kicked the son out a long time ago. My stepson needs a wake up call or maybe some kind of scare tactic. Any suggestions?How can I help my husband to get his son motivated?
Give him a nice kick in the pants. The son not your husband. If that doesn't work, use that kick and kick him out the door. No use having a bum around and teach his kids bad things.How can I help my husband to get his son motivated?
if he's not doing anything with his life but making babies, some1 has to put their foot down and let him know he has to get on or get out... From the sound of it, he is not being a good example for his children anyway. As a grandparent and decent human being, I understand you want the best for your grandchildren but if the mother is in the picture, have her take responsibility for THEIR children and you guys as grandparents do all u can to help but it is not your job to raise and provide for your grandchildren when your son is apparently perfectly capable but just too lazy to make something happen for himself.
Well as hard as it is your going to have to tell him to grow up or move out. Make him find a job, pay rent and help out around the house. As hard as it is your not doing him any favors letting him sit around the house.
SWEET MILDRED IS MY LEADER.JOIN ME IN HER PLAYPEN





Show him the door straight away

How do I help my husband and children adjust to life without mommy for awhile?

I'm leaving on a trip for 2-3 weeks, leaving my husband with our almost 3 year old and 18 month old. They'll be joining us later- we're having our 3rd baby and have to travel back to the U.S. While he works, our nanny will take care of the kids, but they're only used to her coming once a week, not everyday! The longest I've been away from my children is 4-5 hours. I'm worried it will be horrible for them all!How do I help my husband and children adjust to life without mommy for awhile?
The best thing you can do is prepare well beforehand - make a list of the children's routine for both hubby and nanny, fill the freezer with food (if you have the stamina cook double each night when you make dinner, then freeze half). Will the nanny be able to manage grocery shopping, or perhaps hubby can do it on the way home? Do you have any family or close friends that could pop in to visit to help out with the kids? It may be exciting for them to have visitors.





Perhaps you could do a wall chart of the days you're away so that the kids can cross them off or put stickers on. Another idea is to get little gifts, wrap them, and leave with hubby/ nanny to give to the kids - one a day. They don't have to be big, maybe a sheet of stickers or a treat or something.





Also make a list of things to pack for hubby/ nanny when they travel to see you - if your hubby's anything like mine he'll forget the most important things!





Most of all, try not to fret too much - you've got a new baby to worry about ;-) Kids are so adaptable, it may be a little strange for them but they'll be okay. If you can make it as exciting for them as possible - explain to them you're going away, but you'll call every day and that the nanny %26amp; dad will be looking after them %26amp; its going to be so much fun, etc. Maybe get the nanny to take them somewhere on an outing, if possible, even if it's play dates with friends, or the zoo or whatever. Help them look forward to it! I do know how difficult leaving them will be for you, as I've had to do it before too, but they will be fine.How do I help my husband and children adjust to life without mommy for awhile?
Chill, it will be fine, just make sure they know your thinking of them and make sure you give them a present when you next see them =].
They will definitely miss you, but they will be okay. The best thing you can do is to get him into the routine now before you leave. Men have a hard time with dinners, bath time, reminding the kids to brush their teeth, things like that so make a list for him of everything you do and put them in order of importance. No matter what they will survive. :)





If you haven't read it before, I suggest getting a copy of the book called ';The Kissing Hand'; for your kids. Read it to them every night before you leave and then over the phone while you are gone. It's a great book and it can really help them while you're away.

How do you report your husband for stealing your paycheck?

The incident of fraud occurred in 1997. Is it too late to pursue this matter with the proper authorities?How do you report your husband for stealing your paycheck?
As wrong as it was to do something like that, being that it was almost 10 years ago I believe it is too late but if you really want to pursue this, check with a lawyer, they would know what the statute on something like this would be

How can I make my husband understand that I hate him finding excuses to drink a lot every single day?

That and he chooses to go out with his friends more than he does with me or just stays home all the time. He finds excuses not to go anywhere fun with me and there no excuses when it comes to his friends. WTH?How can I make my husband understand that I hate him finding excuses to drink a lot every single day?
Your husband is trying to escape, not just his marriage, but his life. You have to realize something: hurting people hurt people. Whatever he's doing to you, he's doing worse to himself. I'm not saying that to make excuses for him or to get you to feel sympathy for him. I'm telling you this so you know what you're dealing with.





You cannot change another person. The only person you can control or change is yourself so I'm asking you, ';Is this the kind of marriage you want? Is this what you deserve or do you deserve better? Aren't you tired of feeling like you have to chase your husband down, beg him for attention? Fight for his time?'; I'm telling you this because I've been through it, not with drinking, but the begging for someone's time and, eventually, I got tired of doing that. Eventually, I realized that I deserved better and now I have it. I never have to beg for his time. He's amazing and wonderful and it's been that way from day one.





You need to ask yourself, ';Am I willing to stay with this person if he never changes (because, again, you are not responsible for making him change)?'; If your answer is yes, then you're going to have to find a way to be at peace with who he is and the way he acts right now. If the answer is no, you need to make a choice about the future of this marrage.





No matter what, remember two things:


1) We teach people how to treat us


2) When someone shows you who they are, believe them!





Be well...How can I make my husband understand that I hate him finding excuses to drink a lot every single day?
the excuses are not the problem. those are just his way of trying not to hurt your feelings. the reason he does those things is because he enjoys them. it seems he may not enjoy doing things with your or going places with you. you have serious relationship problems and you need to communicate with him:





it seems like you're really enjoying time with your friends (then listen)


you are having a lot of fun when you go out with your friends (listen)


learn from listening. don't accuse. just listen to what he says about how much and what he's getting from being with his friends


';you seem eager to party with your friends';


[more listening]





after you have listened and fully understand his enjoyment of his activities then you can tell him:





';when you go with bob to the pub, i feel hurt, because i'd like some fun and connection also';





tell him how you feel and what you need from the relationship.





';when you went to the club with artie last night, i felt disappointed because i was wanting some closeness and intimacy';





don't blame him, take responsiblity for your own feelings and needs.
He's having an affair, with alcohol. It might be a different perspective, but if you think about it, it kinda makes sense. It also gives him an 'excuse' that he can later use to justify having an affair with a woman. It also gives him freedom from his conscience.





He will make every excuse in the book to justify his drinking (affair) and then some. People who make excuses are pretending (faking) or as some would say, being factitious.





If he continues to follow this path, he will lose you. Take a look at http://www.al-anon.alateen.org/english.h鈥?/a> for their view on it.
,,,if ,,and i meen ,,if ,, you used to be with him when he was around his friends before you got married ,,,than you changed ,,not him,,you have become critical and invasive of his actions and thoughts,,you have second guessed him and demeaned him ,,if ,,you were around him and his friends before you got married,,,who changed ,,drinking numbs the noise and distorts the images,,my wife enjoyed showing me the newest nude bar she found in the Philippines when i got back from a mission and suggests we stop for coffee at topless coffee shops ,,,because she is safe in her self and she knows i like ****,,, he drinks because your a paine
He will understand when he comes home and finds all of his belongings out in the front yard. He is the only one that can change that, and if you keep talking to him about it, it will only see you as a nag. Good luck. Living with a drunk is no fun. My parents drank like fish when I was growing up, and now I hate it. It actually makes me sick to my stomach to have to watch drunk people.
Hmm...time for a new man! Nobody is worth living your life unhappy. Sounds like he may be cheating and scared to take you out in public because of fear of being found out. You deserve to be with someone who takes you out and is proud to be with you! Unless you are a jealous person and ruin it everytime he took you somewhere but thats unlikely unless you like sixteen. Go be with someone who deserves you! Tell him if he doesn't start including you then your leaving!
because he think your boring and dont drinking. so he choice with his dummy friends. well when he come home and you should put some drugs in drinking after he would realized too much for him lmao. If you don't happy with him - go to club and start affair.
You need to tell him it has to stop because you feel there is a real problem. Tell him you will stand by him if he realizes he has a problem and needs help.
Sounds like he finds you to be the ol ball and chain that weighs him down. When he goes out with you he can not check out other girls now can he???
Haven't you ever heard of unconditional love?
By leaving him
maybe hes cheating. O_o

How do I train my husband to poop in 20 minutes or less?

He takes on average an hour to poop.





He has to take his computer or some other reading material.





If you have any suggestions that would be awesome!!!How do I train my husband to poop in 20 minutes or less?
Personally I'm with you (and I'm a guy). I've NEVER understood the need or the desire to be in there that long. 2 minutes is enough including hand washing. Make him batches of brownies and pudding with Ex-lax ingredients.How do I train my husband to poop in 20 minutes or less?
This is not a child; it's your husband. He'll not take well to being 'trained' by you... You'll be wiser %26amp; a bigger help if you both add green, leafy veggies to your food intake everyday, drink plenty of plain water, and walk at least 20 minutes daily. Try eating more Chinese food. That way, you'll improve your health %26amp; likely have easier bowel movements every 1 to 2 days.
Train your husband? Is he a pet, like a dog?





Certainly that's a long time for someone to be in the bathroom, but some people are that way. I suggest that you improve his diet to include more fiber---oatmeal, bran cereals, prunes, vegetables and fruits can help to speed up his elimination.
He doesnt poop the entire time. I guess its kinda his time away. Sitting on the ';throne'; reading or doing whatever on the computer. Its honestly quite relaxing.
okay..? :| i dont think you can train him to poop faster
Leave him be. Encroaching in what might be his only alone time could be hazardous to your marriage
Umm, tell him to? I guess he is just taking his time.
Feed him more fiber
bALL BUSTING
he's having penis time with him self just leave it.
feed him fiber my brother had broblems with Pooping

lancome

clinique

How can I convince my husband to enjoy a really special wine on an average day?

He always insists on waiting for a special occasion to open a rare bottle. Why not just because it's Wednesday?


Or have a mature Chateauneuf-du-Pape because we're having a great steak.How can I convince my husband to enjoy a really special wine on an average day?
The main purpose of wine is to enjoy it.


Most people enjoy it by drinking it, some people just enjoy having it on their shelves...to them it's more about the ownership than the consumption.





I know this isn't the answer you're looking for, but you are seriously the best judge of how to get your husband to see your way of thinking...not any strangers with idiot responses on Yahoo.


That being said, I share your view that a wine is better enjoyed by drinking than looking at it. I would argue that the people who created that wine intended it to be enjoyed...to be tasted, experienced, etc. If that doesn't work, ask him why you're wasting money on good wine if you're not going to drink it. Why not just buy wine that comes in pretty bottles if all you're going to do is look at it?


*shrug*





Good luck.How can I convince my husband to enjoy a really special wine on an average day?
Maybe you need a different husband hehe ;)

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Not to sound dreary but you never know when you are going to be gone and if you keep saving up for a special occasion whos to say someone else won't be drinking your special rare wine instead of you because you wanted to wait. Take every moment in life as a gift and celebrate everyday because it may just be a wednesday but it may also be your last wednesday so live life to the fullest. If your husband isn't convinced pop the cork I am sure he will help you drink it then
Well you have a good point, my husband has an old hand painted bottle of Jim Beam he got over 20 years ago and lets it sit. I finally got him convinced that you can't wait forever because tomorrow isn't a guarantee. We decided to wait for a few more years for our 20th wedding anniversary. Of course one way to change his mind now if you really don't want to wait is come home early and open it up yourself!!! As you say why not just because or a great steak day???
most men will do anything for sex
You're his wife right? Partners in life? Partners make choices that will affect the other every day. You would like to open your special bottle of wine. Why do you need a reason? It's yours just as much as it's his. If your concern that he is upset, don't wait for the moment to be special, make it special.
Tomorow is such an uncertain thing! Many say ';Live life to its fullest!'; That means nothing unless you do it. A bottle of wine to celebrate life is a small pleasure, but a pleasure none the less! Throw in some candles, dimmed lights and a succulent meal and you've just built yourself an occasion!!
Remind him that the wine will start to deteriorate if you wait too long.
Tell him that unless he enjoys that expensive bottle of wine with you on Wednesday you will divorce him. He'll probably wait until the day your divorce is final and then open up the bottle to celebrate.

How can I make my husband understand that I hate him finding excuses to drink a lot every single day?

That and he chooses to go out with his friends more than he does with me or just stays home all the time. He finds excuses not to go anywhere fun with me and there no excuses when it comes to his friends. WTH?How can I make my husband understand that I hate him finding excuses to drink a lot every single day?
Your husband is trying to escape, not just his marriage, but his life. You have to realize something: hurting people hurt people. Whatever he's doing to you, he's doing worse to himself. I'm not saying that to make excuses for him or to get you to feel sympathy for him. I'm telling you this so you know what you're dealing with.





You cannot change another person. The only person you can control or change is yourself so I'm asking you, ';Is this the kind of marriage you want? Is this what you deserve or do you deserve better? Aren't you tired of feeling like you have to chase your husband down, beg him for attention? Fight for his time?'; I'm telling you this because I've been through it, not with drinking, but the begging for someone's time and, eventually, I got tired of doing that. Eventually, I realized that I deserved better and now I have it. I never have to beg for his time. He's amazing and wonderful and it's been that way from day one.





You need to ask yourself, ';Am I willing to stay with this person if he never changes (because, again, you are not responsible for making him change)?'; If your answer is yes, then you're going to have to find a way to be at peace with who he is and the way he acts right now. If the answer is no, you need to make a choice about the future of this marrage.





No matter what, remember two things:


1) We teach people how to treat us


2) When someone shows you who they are, believe them!





Be well...How can I make my husband understand that I hate him finding excuses to drink a lot every single day?
the excuses are not the problem. those are just his way of trying not to hurt your feelings. the reason he does those things is because he enjoys them. it seems he may not enjoy doing things with your or going places with you. you have serious relationship problems and you need to communicate with him:





it seems like you're really enjoying time with your friends (then listen)


you are having a lot of fun when you go out with your friends (listen)


learn from listening. don't accuse. just listen to what he says about how much and what he's getting from being with his friends


';you seem eager to party with your friends';


[more listening]





after you have listened and fully understand his enjoyment of his activities then you can tell him:





';when you go with bob to the pub, i feel hurt, because i'd like some fun and connection also';





tell him how you feel and what you need from the relationship.





';when you went to the club with artie last night, i felt disappointed because i was wanting some closeness and intimacy';





don't blame him, take responsiblity for your own feelings and needs.
He's having an affair, with alcohol. It might be a different perspective, but if you think about it, it kinda makes sense. It also gives him an 'excuse' that he can later use to justify having an affair with a woman. It also gives him freedom from his conscience.





He will make every excuse in the book to justify his drinking (affair) and then some. People who make excuses are pretending (faking) or as some would say, being factitious.





If he continues to follow this path, he will lose you. Take a look at http://www.al-anon.alateen.org/english.h鈥?/a> for their view on it.
,,,if ,,and i meen ,,if ,, you used to be with him when he was around his friends before you got married ,,,than you changed ,,not him,,you have become critical and invasive of his actions and thoughts,,you have second guessed him and demeaned him ,,if ,,you were around him and his friends before you got married,,,who changed ,,drinking numbs the noise and distorts the images,,my wife enjoyed showing me the newest nude bar she found in the Philippines when i got back from a mission and suggests we stop for coffee at topless coffee shops ,,,because she is safe in her self and she knows i like ****,,, he drinks because your a paine
He will understand when he comes home and finds all of his belongings out in the front yard. He is the only one that can change that, and if you keep talking to him about it, it will only see you as a nag. Good luck. Living with a drunk is no fun. My parents drank like fish when I was growing up, and now I hate it. It actually makes me sick to my stomach to have to watch drunk people.
Hmm...time for a new man! Nobody is worth living your life unhappy. Sounds like he may be cheating and scared to take you out in public because of fear of being found out. You deserve to be with someone who takes you out and is proud to be with you! Unless you are a jealous person and ruin it everytime he took you somewhere but thats unlikely unless you like sixteen. Go be with someone who deserves you! Tell him if he doesn't start including you then your leaving!
because he think your boring and dont drinking. so he choice with his dummy friends. well when he come home and you should put some drugs in drinking after he would realized too much for him lmao. If you don't happy with him - go to club and start affair.
You need to tell him it has to stop because you feel there is a real problem. Tell him you will stand by him if he realizes he has a problem and needs help.
Sounds like he finds you to be the ol ball and chain that weighs him down. When he goes out with you he can not check out other girls now can he???
Haven't you ever heard of unconditional love?
By leaving him
maybe hes cheating. O_o

How can I get my husband to wear sunscreen?

My husband is a construction worker and he refuses to wear sunscreen. He always comes in sunburned. I have tried talking to him but he won't listen to me. I don't know how to get it through his head that he's really damaging his skin.How can I get my husband to wear sunscreen?
show your husband some photos of the different stages of skin cancer. if this don't change him then nothing will.

What do i do my husband has for gotten our wedding anniversary?

today is our wedding anniversary what do i do with him.i bought him a present and card and a red rose but ive heard nothing from him today his been at work all day his not bothered to come home early.What do i do my husband has for gotten our wedding anniversary?
Were you setting a trap for him wondering if he would remember? This morning you should have said ';Happy Anniversary'; before he left for work. My husband and I were married 11 years last month. We didn't buy each other a card or anything. We went out to dinner and enjoyed a glass of wine with each other. As long as you love and appreciate each other the cards and gifts do not matter. I'd rather have a loving husband forgets a date than a jerk that remembers everything. What do i do my husband has for gotten our wedding anniversary?
If you guys haven't made any plans (which I assume you have not), just give him a gift when he comes home from work and wish him a happy anniversary. Just because he forgot the specific date, doesn't mean he doesn't care about you. My husband and I don't mark our anniversary in any specific way, but we do care about each other, and we make an effort to nurture our marriage all year round. One day doesn't matter so much. If he's prone to forgetting dates, just remind him next time as it gets close, and make plans together.
HE'S WORKING. IT'S HIS JOB.





Good grief. Another clingy woman who assumes that he feels the same way about an event and is jumping to conclusions because the day isn't matching her fantasy about what it should look like.





If you wake up tomorrow morning and he still hasn't acknowledged your anniversary, you can complain that he forgot. Until then, quit projecting onto him and wait until he's actually had a chance to spend some time with you.
Oh, sh*t. Well, try to come up with some creative way to remind him without coming right out and saying so. Maybe you could call him up and ask for a particular restaurant. Or ask him to take you to a significant place (like your first kiss spot). That way, if he is planning something for later, you won't spoli it. If he truly forgot, those things might make him remember. Hopefully, he's not totally bone-headed and will pick up damn quick.





While he deserve to be punished for forgetting, don't let it ruin the night for you. Do what you can to enjoy your anniversary, then deal with him afterward.
Men aren't as in tuned with these specific dates as us women are. Send him a friendly reminder, call him and wish him a happy anniversary and tell him how much you love him. Hey, he might even pick up something nice on the way home from work. ;)





Some people don't even really know the date unless they look it up on the calender. It may not be that he forgot it was your anniversary (I'm sure he remembers the day you were married) but maybe he just lost track of the days.
Its hard for men, don't get mad at him. He may still be doing something for it. But you could text him and say ';Happy Anniversary';, that way if he did forget he can still go get something and you two can have a nice night, free of fighting. And this way you don't even have to know if he forgot or not and you can assume that he didn't....its a win/win for everyone.
Give him until tonight. If he genuinely has forgotten and feels bad about it, let him make it up to you. If not, pop down to the shops tomorrow and buy yourself something that you want, that you know he can just about afford, and thank him sweetly.


And tell him if he ever does that again, it will cost ten times as much.
Guys don't always remember these things you know. It doesn't mean he doesn't love you.....and that that day wasn't memorable.....just means he's going to be in the ';DOG HOUSE!';. Don't get upset.......when he comes home and if he's forgotten....just do what you were going to do..be nice..let him squirm...No reallly. You can avoid a big fight if you just go on with your plans and make it a surprise! He will ' feel' like getting you something as opposed to 'obligated' if you don't get mad at him for being forgettful.
Just wait. He may have a surprise planned. If not, be nice and sweet. Give him the gift and rose. If you are sweet, he will really feel like an ****** for forgetting. You might get something really good then. Be gracious and surprised if that happens.
do him a favor and call him and wish him a happy anniversary as a reminder, if you don't you're setting yourself up for a huge row.
I don't know, call him and say Happy Anniversary. My husband and I both don't keep up with anniversaries. A few days after our 2 year anniversary I said..';Hey..wasn't --- our 2 year anniversary?'; lol.
Will he be coming home to you? If so, then he hasn't forgotten who he is married to. Which is more important: a date in history or you two being together.
How long have you been married?





And working away to provide for his family isn't a bad thing. Just thank your lucky stars he's that devoted to you.
have some patience maybe there's more to it then you know and what he's shown..


but honestly if there is nothing in store don't be such a poor sport about it.. be happy he made it home to you =)
It can be very embarrassing. I forgot my wedding anniversary once and she fed my dinner to the dog. I wouldn't have minded, but we haven't even got a dog!
get dressed to the nines


and be waiting for him to come home


have your gift and rose in your hands





he will feel so awful he will never forget again


chalk it up to experience


guys can be a bit rubbish at things like this
He might be playing it cool and be ready to surprise you. Or more likely he has completly forgotten. Given him the presents and he will feel guilty for the next few weeks at least.
Feed his dinner to the dog and make him pay for the next few weeks. This is your ace up the sleeve next time he gets the hump about something





Enjoy!!!
Just call him and ask him if he wants to go out to dinner for your anniversay.
Be patient, as the day is not over yet. He may have a nice, romantic surprise for you apon his arrival.....
';forgotten'; is one word.
He,s maybe celebrating with his pals !!!!!!
That's men for you!!
the day is young it might be a surprise

How do I get my husband to accept the divorce papers?

The sheriffs department has tried serving him 6 times and he won't accept them. He's not returning any phone calls or text messages. Unfortunately he gets a kicks out of upsetting me and this certainly has. I need suggestions on how to get this evil, deceitful man to give me a divorce?How do I get my husband to accept the divorce papers?
if the sheriff goes to his house.... if he opens the door... they should make him take them..... even if they toss them inside.





Have them deliver the papers where he works.How do I get my husband to accept the divorce papers?
He doesn't HAVE to return any phone calls or texts from you. He doesn't HAVE to accept service from the sheriff's department. The fact that he gets a kick out of it is YOUR problem. You can't MAKE him accept the papers. I suggest that you go to the court, get the paper work to have a friend mail the papers. You need 5 or 6 copies of these forms, One you fill out for your friend to sign and keep, two go with the papers in the mail, one is for him to keep the other is for him to sign and send back, one copy YOU fill out and keep another copy or two go to the court. Then you give the papers to the friend/acquaintance along with the amount it costs to register and send the papers certified mail. He will then HAVE to accept them because the postal carrier will indicate that they were delivered to his address and that indication will be sent to you and you will have to take that to the court as proof over service. In no way are YOU to mail the papers, you do so and that makes the filing null and void.
If he will not physically receive the paper work, that does not stop the divorce. You may still be able to go to Mexico and have the divorce processed there. I know in the past people have done that. It's different state to state. You may want to check that out. Nevada may expedite divorces also. Or, just have your attorney start proceedings in the court. He can't stop that. Have it noted on the court docket how many times the sheriff tried to serve him. I wouldn't get all upset over this. Text him and tell him the divorce is moving forward with out his consent and you are requesting all assets. That will get him moving.
OMG...





Listen, I understand. Although you are describing an ';ex'; boyfriend--I know this vengeful, spiteful, immature type. You are ';balls to the wall'; right, he is only trying to get a rise out of you. Remember angel, there is always more than one way to skin a cat. Ban together with another attractive woman and go into 'Operation: Gotcha....'





Where does he hang out, where does he work? Offer a very pretty woman $50-100 (get her off Craig's List)...write a very ';vague'; post offering the $50-100 for a ';covert operation';, ask the person to respond with a photo, write back and ask for her number and tell her you need to voice verify, take her for coffee at Starbucks--make sure it's in the area where he lives or works or even goes for a drink, tell her the issue and that she will be paid once she flirts and is able to SERVE him--throw in an incentive like dinner (you two can have a laugh once the job is done)....catch him with bait--all men fall for women...it may take a few weeks to orchestrate, but continue to call him because if you stop abruptly, he will know something is askew. Keep it status quo until you find the bait--





She can flirt one day as he exits work, then go to offer her number and voila! Served.





Don't rush, it's been this long, surely another week or two won't hurt for a positive end result.





All the very best!
If its clear he's ducking the process servers the divorce can move ahead without him. He'll be notified of the case and if he fails to appear it could be considered uncontested.





Takes longer than normal to ensure he can't show up months down the road and complain but the ends justify the means.
Hire a private process server. Sheriff's deputies are too busy with other things to focus entirely on serving legal papers. Just wait a week or two to let him relax a bit and then pay a professional process server. Women process servers are really excellent at that job.
He is going to oppose you every step of the way. Even though it will take longer, you have to proceed without him being served. This is going to be a long, difficult process, I'm afraid. Try not to get emotional in front of him -- that will only fuel the fire.





Good luck.
If it's been that many times, go to an attorney they file the paper work and they send out the papers. if he refuses they let the judge know and he (the judge) signs the papers himself! it's kind of costly but its worth it in the end! good luck
I am not sure of what the divorce laws read in your state but I divorced my husband uncontested because he refused to accept the papers that the Sheriff's Department tried to serve on him. Ask your attorney for advice.
You can go to court and I believe that they can force him to do it or do it without his cooperation.
You can proceed without him.
just file your papers it may take longer but they will move on without him. dont let him get to you and mentally just move on...
Make them into paper airplanes and throw them through his window.
ask the court how you are supposed to serve him if he refuses service.

How can I get my husband to start looking for a higher paying job?

I want to be nice about this with my husband. I can't find a job so we are livng pay check to pay check every pay check. I want to know how I can get him to apply at a better job outside of where he works? He does has a fork lifting license. Also he is a great worker and he does work alot of over time where he works now.How can I get my husband to start looking for a higher paying job?
If he got a higher paying job but it had less OT, you might be worse off than you are now. You need to keep looking, and look harder, for a job.How can I get my husband to start looking for a higher paying job?
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What should I surprise my husband with at our wedding reception?

My husband and I got married quickly before he left for Army basic training. Well, he's home now and we are planning a reception for our family and friends in July. I'd like to surprise him with a nice gift but I don't know what. HELP!What should I surprise my husband with at our wedding reception?
A new Harley with beer cans (Empty of course) tied to the rear fender would be the greatest gift any red blooded American male could receive. Be really cool. The two of you blasting off on your second honeymoon with your legs wrapped around his waist. Oh. And thank him for his service to our great country from all of us. Congrats to you both. May you live to ride, and ride to live.What should I surprise my husband with at our wedding reception?
Consider his personality and his likes and dislikes when choosing a gift. Often times this alone will make your gift more surprising and effective than something 'cookie cutter' (flasks, cufflinks, etc.)





Does he enjoy fine alcohol? Consider splurging on a bottle of Armagnac, which is a finer, more aged version of cognac. You could pair it with a nice crystal decanter which you could easily have personalized for him.





Does he love sweets? Consider a surprise 'groom's' cake. Generally the groom's cake is kept a secret and is a surprise for him at the reception, and is often made in a flavor which is his favorite and not included in the wedding cake. And the part that makes groom's cakes most fun is that they are normally fashioned into something that he likes or represents him, like a video game, the ever popular fish cake, etc. Check the link for examples: http://images.google.com/images?hl=en%26amp;q=…





If he's an accessory wearing guy, you might splurge on a really nice timepiece that you have personalized on the backside, with your names or a short but sweet message to him from you, or possibly your wedding date. You might consider a Movado, Breitling, etc... something you (or he) wouldn't normally splurge on.





Loves automobiles: Is there a racing track %26amp; school near to where you live? Surprise him with a day of learning racing with an instructor, or if he's into fine supercars, surprise him with a day-rental of his dream car (Bentley, Ferrari, etc.)





The list goes on. What does he like? Tell us! It'll better help us brainstorm.





Congrats and good luck!
Typical would be cufflinks, a nice watch, etc. Non-standard would be something more personal that fits his personality: a leather briefcase, Craftsman toolbox/tools, gourmet cooking classes, skydiving gift certificate, etc. Since he is in the Army, why not commission a flag to fly in his honor over the capitol building? My fiance has one from when he got his Eagle Scout honors.





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Good luck!
Get him something he wants, but most likely you would never buy him. Or something he wants not cufflinks, or a cute piture of you two or something like that. That might be something YOU would like for HIM to have, but the same is not true the other way around.
tell him you're pregnant! LOL

How do I get my husband to do the hoovering?

He has been sitting on the recliner for over half an hour and won't move... what can I do to motivate him.How do I get my husband to do the hoovering?
bj?How do I get my husband to do the hoovering?
why are you complaining about him sitting on the recliner- you're sitting at the computer staring at the damn vacuum.
Ask him. My husband would if I asked. Don't just assume he knows you want him to just because he should.
and what are you doing......

How do I get my husband to help with housework?

Whenever I start cleaning our little apartment, my husband always finds something else to do, browse internet, watch TV, or just play his PSP. How do I get him to help me clean? I've already dropped hints and told him I wished he would help out more. What more can I do?How do I get my husband to help with housework?
Hints do not work. TELL HIM


Say; ';I need some help around here, the faster we get it done the easier it will be for both of us...you live here too and this is OUR home and WE need to clean it up';





We teach people how to treat us....How do I get my husband to help with housework?
You are entering the ';It's a man thing'; world. I don't know many men that really like to do ';Woman's Work';. And I'm kidding of course but it's close to true. Most men including myself were raised by mothers, who if you didn't pick it up they did. Not to mention the many many programs on TV or the movies that depict role model women taking care of the man... You know; me the hunter you the cook. I think it's a matter of maturing and having a little respect, integrity and personal pride. If you can convince your man that he is missing all or part of these things he may decided this isn't a one way street (cleaning up the mess). Help him out, get a bull horn and when he least expects it and resting comfortably fire up that bad boy and tell the old man get up and clean or get out so you can get some work done! Really - Good luck.
Give him a typed up list with little boxes for him to check off! Sounds silly and immature, but, well, it works. When mine wont get off the xbox and he knows i need help. I make him a list. He breezes through pretty fast and does a good job. It saves you from having to stay on top of him constantly which annoys both of you. And he knows exactly what he needs to do and wont forget anything. I think my husband prefers it this way. I just hand him the list and let him go. No more fuss!





Most men will not volunteer to help clean ANYTHING. And if you ask for help they might be ok doing it but honestly they truely dont know where to start. I dont know about you, but when I used to have to tell my husband bit by bit what I wanted him to do, he would call it nagging and I would get mad that I actually would have to explain to him what needed to be done. This list thing honestly works. He still has his dignity and i still have my sanity.
Let him know that a relationship means equality and it would be really nice if he can be more equal with you and help you out some more because doing it yourself is very overwhelming.
Wow when you figure it out let me know! I've been trying to get mine to help for 10 years. Seems hints don't work and even direct threats don't work. I've tried just about everything and get very little help!
You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink.
Don't drop hints. Be direct and ask for his help. When your about to clean tell him, I'll take the kitchen, can you pick up the living room?
Act emotional and act crying and say';Oh... why can't you just work!!!'; really sadly and that should do the trick!!!

How can I help my husband get rid of toenail fungus?

We have tried doctors but the meds are 2 expensive or they want to remove his nail and he doesn't want that,so i am looking for home remedies if anyone has any.How can I help my husband get rid of toenail fungus?
You can try vicks vapo rub as that is what the podiatrist recommend. One other treatment is to soak his foot in warm water with tea tree oil added and then use the tea tree oil directly on the nail several times a day.How can I help my husband get rid of toenail fungus?
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cut off his fungus ridden toes
Go to a pharmacist. There are over the counter medicines and creams he can use.
i agree with Madame M.. my friend swears by soaking in vinegar and water DAILY... he said that his nails improved drastically.
I don't know where you live, so this may not help.





The Australian essential oil called Tea Tree Oil is very effective in treating toenail fungus - just as good as those expensive meds. Just keep applying it, preferably neat, to the toes every morning and night.
My aunt had this really bad. I told her to get ';TEA TREE OIL'; from a health food store. She put in on and put a sock over it as she slept for a couple weeks and it cleared it up!
Vicks vapor rub
The Doctor can give him some medicine but it can do serious liver damage and it still won't work.
Daily hot foot baths with a splash or two of vinegar put in.





Then clean gently with an orange stick or a toothpick (but super gently!). Use a cotton swab to apply tea tree oil straight to the fungal area.





In the meantime, if possible, buy new shoes. If it's not possible, make sure he wears dry shoes everyday (alternate shoes each day, or even make sure he wears three pairs of shoes in rotation), and swipe the inside with tea tree oil. Also, ditch any socks with holes. And wash all the socks in super-hot water and detergent (and some more tea tree oil, if you can afford it).





Clean all the floors and bathroom surfaces where he goes barefoot.





He will have to follow the foot-bath and tea-tree swipe routine everyday until the fungus grows out. It's possible that the symptoms will disappear, but if he waits until he's got entirely new nail, he will be sure the fungus is gone.





After that, he should take care to notice any new foot fungus, and do the routine until the symptoms disappear. (Don't forget itchy places between the toes!)





I get foot fungus every once in a while too, and I can testify that this works for me.
I found some good info here.
you can try topical lamisil thats made for athletes foot and such but its not likely to help all that much, rick just doesnt worry about his.

How can I get my Husband to Clean?

My husband will take off his clothes and throw them over the floor in our bedroom, he will use dishes and leave them in the living room or bed room. I do all the cleaning for the house, he does nothing, it really drives me crazy that I cannot sit down in the living room to relax without having to pick up clothes and toys?


What can I do?


10 points to the person with the best idea.How can I get my Husband to Clean?
Talk to him. If that does not work, cut him off until he comes around.How can I get my Husband to Clean?
get off his rear-end
Honey if you can get an answer to that one, please share it with everyone.... I know what you mean and it drives me crazy!!!! I decided that for one week I wasn't going to pick up anything after him... hoping that he would realize the mess the house was in... guess what he never noticed that the laundry was piling up in the bedroom floor, or the shoes at the front door or even the dishes on the table beside his chair. As the end result I ended up spending my entire Saturday cleaning because his mother called and said she was coming for a visit on Sunday......
I'm sorry your husband is a slob.


But, If you haven't already Talked to him about it, then that is the first step. If he still is committed to being a slob after you ';talking'; not gripping! Then it is time to get tough..lol


If he like fishing tie all his poles together w/ fishing line.. that will keep him busy for sometime getting that undone and he wont be able to dirty nothing in the mean time! If he has his own truck/car... It is now time to Make it look like it belongs to you and the kid's.. Start by hanging signs on his truck baby on board, Then leave half empty milk bottles under his seat! He will love the smell!, If he takes showers you can now begin to hang up all your underwear in his shower to dry!, If he sleeps on the couch(and I'm only guessing here but i think he might!! lol) You can make sure all the laundry is piled up on the sofa where he sleeps!


And beings that He likes things dirty, Heck don't wash his socks and underwear just put um back in his draw!!!! Why waste time washing his things. Hope this helps if not I have some other things that might!!!! good luck!
If he brings home a wage that covers the bills and food and you get some to spend yourself then I'm sorry....pick up the clothes and toys.





The four words that should be not used in a family are ';he';, ';me';, ';I'; and ';him';.....it should only be ';we';. Have a look at your question.
You need to tell him. Men do not think like women and women do not think like men. Don't gripe at him about it. Just say, ';put your dishes in the dishwasher when you are through eating and put your clothes in the dirty clothes hamper when you take them off please.'; Say this everyday until he doesn't need to be told anymore. Put a note on the floor where he throws his clothes with arrows pointing to the direction of the hamper. These two things are very small things to fight over. Not worth it.
Instead of picking up my DH stuff I starts mauling it over, paying it no mind at all.


He leaves his $200 shoes in the garage where I park- I ran them over.


He leaves his clothes on the floor- they don't get washed.


He leaves his dirty dish at the table- that same dirty dish would be there for the next meal.


He leaves his CD's or MP3 out- the kids play with it and break it.





This method will take some ';grin and bear it'; from you for a while but soon he will see the consequence of his actions. Especially when it gets to something he really cares about, (like those shoes or the MP3 in my case).
LOL! Join the crowd sister! I don't know if this will work for you but it worked for me. My husband and I had this arguement over and over again until I finally decided to put my foot down. I explained to him that I am not his personal maid and that he should have enough respect to clean up after himself. I told him that whatever I found lying around would be considered trash and that's exactly where it would wind up. So every time I would find his shoes lying around or his clothes in a heap on the floor I would throw them in a trash bag. (a clean one of course) It didn't take long and he was tired of fishing thru a trash bag in order to find his things. Sometimes I would put his shoes at the bottom of the basement steps. That way when he needed his shoes he would have to walk downstairs to get them. He couldn't stand it. I stopped washing his clothes until he placed them in the hamper like he's supposed to do. That's not asking much. I think I've got him pretty much trained now. It's not that we're being demanding, it's just that there's a certain level of respect that we deserve for doing all of the house work. I've asked him before, ';How would you feel if I went to your work and trashed your office every day?'; I think he gets it now. I hope this helps you. :)
From the point of view of the 'guy' I can say that he honestly doesn't care if its clean.





It boils down to: I don't want it clean, you do.





So give him an incentive to want the place clean. I don't know what kind of guy your husband is, but if you throw a 'party' for his friends every month that he keeps the house clean that might do the trick.





Alternatively, you could let him do something you know he likes (say, going to the bar) more often if he keeps the house clean.
You may have to talk with him openly about how his laziness is affecting you... He's your husband you should be able to say- ';Honey, I would really appreciate it if you would bring your dirty plates/dishes into the kitchen when you are finished'; OR ';Honey, while I'm in the kitchen (cleaning) could you please pick up the childrens toys THANKS !';





He may NOT realize that he's being lazy and he's gotten used to you doing EVERYTHING so why should he change.. You have to tell them !





If you are a SAHM you BEST solution is to find evening part-time work so that he has to manage the house/kids while you are working... The job doesn't have to be hard or last 8 hours EVERY night but, it does give your husband a chance to do the things that you do AND you make a little money for yourself...





I'm a SAHM but, I work a small part-time job a few evenings a week... I LOVE going to work because it's a little spending money and it's easier than being at home.. I make friends and I get to socialize for a few hours a night ! While I'm at work my husband knows that I like him to leave the house the same way I have it for him.. .That means the kitchen is clean AFTER he makes dinner for the kids. The toys are picked up, laundry folded and put away and the children bathed....





That's the BEST idea !
omg lol you sound just like me my husband does the same thing !! he makes me feel like I'm cleaning up after my kids ! Ive done it all nothing works Ive tried not washing his clothes in punishment lol all that did was drive me nuts and i even put the clothes hamper in the bedroom didn't work as for dishes he still lets them lay in the floor and as for the dishes me and my sister in law are thinking of all plastic ware ha,ha
My wife complaint about this to me ................and finaly she stop doing all that cleaning our bedroom and i got angry on her





We have good fight i finaly i give up i care for her i clean it if i do


that





in your case it is normal don't worry


he perposely don't do that he forget offen like that





don't tell him any thing and stop cleaning that for a wile he will


notice and complant about it





have a good fight and forget he will be on track like me( lol )





Best off luck








There was joke i remmeber





a husband returen frm his office


he enter in the home





He see the door is open cloth is every where


and basen water flowing out from kitchen and all of mud is


in the living room and wet towel over the sofa he get panic


and run to wards the bed room and notic his wife is reading novel





he ask to his wife what the hell is that it is house or garbage





and his wife camly replay today she has not done any thing


what you alway's complaint about that i don't do any thing


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How can i get my husband to quit snoring?

I am already a light sleeper and he is always snoring when he sleeps.. its hard for me to go to sleep peacefully..what actually works to make him quit snoring?How can i get my husband to quit snoring?
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Shove a pillow over his head
go see a ears nose and throat doctor if your really serious about getting rid of the problem there are many avenues to take care of this from strips to actual surgery just depends how bad his snoring bothers you
Do you know why he snores? Tiredness? Sleeping disorder?


Or maybe he's using too many pillows. Get his head lower/almost aligned with his neck and back bone.
kill him
you can get him to wear breathe right strips for snoring before he falls asleep, or turn him on his side, this will stop his snoring, or go to another room of the house i.e. the living room and sleep on the couch good luck to you
His condition has a medical term called sleep apnea check it out on webmd.com , it can have serious effects on his body have him see a doctor and ask surgery is available to correct this
When he snores, tap him and ask him to turn the other side.
My fiancee usually nudges me hard enough to crack a rib. It works.
try the sleep right strips they are at the druggists or have him take a sinus drying pill like a antihistamine , sometimes its caused by a fleshy covering inside the throat that covers the sinus openings its larger than need be and they can trim it with a lazer so see if he wants that done ,, an olde dude ,, my wife sounds like a buzzsaw
hold his nose........ lol i dont know if u can stop snoring..........
I dont have the answer but my favorite website does.


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His Dr can give him some kind of device(don't know the name of it)that he can use at night my friend has one and he doesn't snore anymore
this is sleepin disorder which can be stopped by surgery only (sleep apnea)


my hubby got the same problem so we have separate rooms now ? atleast i can sleep in peace and so can he
have him lie on his side! you only snor when you are lieing on your back. it will suck, to have to wake up all the time, but roll him over and you will go back to sleep
sit on his face?
first of all -- the poor guy might have sleep apneia (spelling?). Start by seeing a doctor -- there are remedies.





Second, he needs to sleep on his side. You can also get these strips that you put on the bridge of your nose that help.
There are nose clips available that stop that!








http://www.breatheright.com/
If he's on his back or stomach he may be getting insufficient air. Make him lay on his side. That might help stop it.

lancome

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How can i convince my husband to have another baby with me?

I am 41 and have two children


A daughter [age 13]


A son [age 10]


I have felt we needed another child to complete our family for years now but my husband keps saying no.


I know the risks of haveing a baby at this age but i am willing to take that chance. I was planning on haveing an implantation to make sure I have a girl. How can i convince my husband to say yes?How can i convince my husband to have another baby with me?
you really shouldn't try to push him into it, it could cause big problems in you marriage. You have older kids you know what it takes out of both of you and it only gets harder the older you get I have a 13yr old and a 1yr old there is a big difference it's a lot harder to go for days no almost no sleep. You also have to look at the other side of it how old will you be when this one is on her own so you and you husband have time together alone I know my husband wants to travel after the kids are grownHow can i convince my husband to have another baby with me?
You don't have any children with him and want one to complete your family? I don't understand why he don't want a baby how is your marriage? That probably has a lot to do with it this is something you should of talked about before getting married. I think he is selfish to not want a baby or don't want no commitments with you if he decide to leaves.
just have sex and don't take any birth control and you will probably get pregnant
Stop trying to. HE gets a choice in how many children HE wants to father and he doesn't WANT to father any more. If he were smart he'd go have a vasectomy. Just because YOU want another child doesn't mean he has to want the same it doesn't matter what the reasons. Are you willing to face the fact that having another child could end your marriage? Buy a pet.
I Believe that a daughter, son, and husband for you is a GREAT family! Get some loving pets, or if you still feel like u need another child, ADOPT one! There are tons of adorabe little girls that are in need of a loving family to care for them! PLEASE do not bug your husband anymore or try to have a baby! Good Luck!


-Hailey
two choices convince him that another baby is worth any risks...or say surprise papa.....I'm pregnant

How do I get my husband to stop barking?

My husband uncontrollably barks and sometimes even crawls on all fours pretending he's a dog. I don't want to take him to a psychologist because I don't want him to think I think he's crazy. But he really is. He sometimes does this even at work. It's very embarrassing. He's starting to not speak in proper English either and usually barks between words. What should I say or do?How do I get my husband to stop barking?
have lots of sexHow do I get my husband to stop barking?
First of all i would talk to him and ask him why he does this, not in a confrontational way just as an interest. See what he says. Otherwise this is highly unusual and he should probably see a therapist. Many normal people go to therapists or counselors or psychologists to talk about everyday stressors and it in no way means they're crazy. it's not like you're having him committed. So just talk to him, and perhaps you could talk to a therapist first to see what he/she says and the therapist can help you find a way to bring him in without negative connotations.
there's nothing you can do but take him to a psychologist 'cause that's too crazy, you shouldn't be living with that, the man needs help or if you don't want him getting treatment then just take him directly to the mad house i know it sounds harsh but there nothing else you can do or you can take him to a psychiatrist its like a psychologist but for ppl that are even crazier.
Option 1: Feed him kibble, teach him ticks and give him a doggie biscuit when he obeys, buy him a brand new shiny leash and collar so you can take him on walks! Don't forget to groom him and bathe him as well. And scratch him a lot because dogs love affection.





Option 2: Take him to a therapist. Who cares if he thinks you think he is crazy. Um..he is? Yeah don't be stupid. If he's acting like an idiot obviously he's either weird, crazy, or just plain annoying. Yeah, I'll live with a grown man who thinks he's a dog and tell him he's sane. Hmm..





Option 3: If you want to be stupid, well ignore him. Obviously if you don't want to play along or fix him, this is the only other option.





Well good luck. (And by the way, I strongly recommend Option 2) C(:
Are you serious? He needs a psychologist or something. For real! This is scarey. Take him to a doctor. Get a diagnosis. He needs to stop. If he doesn't and it continues to embarass you then this could seriously destroy your relationship.





Also talk to him about it.
Treat him like a dog. When he stands up say ';Down boy!'; and spray him in the face. Train him. Make him eat out of a dog bowl. Buy him a dog bed and lock him in a dog cage when you take him somewhere. Make him smell the toilet. Take him on a leash to crawl on all fours all down the neighborhood block.


Treat him like a dog 'till he acts like a normal human(:


Or take him to the pound.
If he thinks he's a dog, buy him a lead and take him for a walk and buy him dog food and make him eat it.





And dont forget to be his b **ch, give him lots of sex, doggy style, of course.
i think your husband has problem if you want to be quite your husband you need to go on the psychologist clinic....he wants a psychology reverse....don't worry about your love husband if you love him do what is best for him.....
Marry a human?


Unless you're serious, then get him to a psychiatrist. If you love him enough to marry him, then you love him enough to get help.
HUH.. i am a bit confused.


is this a real animal your referring too, or are you joking?


If this is a human i would take him to get help.





good luck!
I think your husband needs to go to a Medical Doctor. It sounds like he has symptoms of Turrets Syndrome a treatable medical condition.
Take him to a psychologist because if there is something wrong with him, your only making it worse by letting it continue
Ignore him,,Obviously he is getting your attention by barking,,


Serve him his dinner in a doggy dish, on the floor... LOL
Get a dog house, keep him chained to it and feed %26amp; water him as you would your dog!





Of course you'll have to walk him every day!





OR take him to a shrink!!
Get a bark collar. It's really curbed my hubby's urge to bark at every noise he hears...And it's made him become a ';good boy!';.
Start feeding him dog food. Lay out wee-wee pads and swat him with a newspaper.
Start acting like a dog yourself.
Maybe he is utterly hungry.
I hate to break it to you.....but he NEEDS to get help from a professional. He is crazy......and quite frankly, he needs to know!
Stick his nose in some do do and then duct tape his mouth.
Spray some water in his face and tell him to lay down.
Get him neutered
Swat him with a newspaper.
Hes ur husband. Dont be embarressed. If hes a dog be his dog mate.





why not.
UMMM well if this is a serious question maybe he has Terret's Syndrome(sp?)
Yeah.... I mean take him to a psychologist.
Feed him dog treats
Find a husband that's not a dog
Rub his nose in his pee spots. You can't be serious.
Get a shock collar.
Have him put down.

How much notice would my husband get before he deploys?

My husband is training in the army to be a cannon crew member (artilery). He is probably going to finish training and school in January of next year. Once he is sent to his duty station, how much time's notice would we get before he gets deployed? I've read that they should give us at least 4 months, but some people say they got only 24 hours. Whats the true amount of notice we should get?How much notice would my husband get before he deploys?
As a cannon crewmember, he will usually know several months in advance before he deploys. The ones who only get 24 hours notice are usually people like Special Forces, Navy SEALS, and other people in Special Operations.How much notice would my husband get before he deploys?
anywhere from 18 hours( been there, done that) to several months.





he will not know until he reports to his first duty station when that unit is scheduled to deploy.





he could literally show up to check in and be told to not bother unpacking,they are leaving in a week.. or the next day.
i got almost a yr in advance but it could be shorter
it depends on where he's going and for what. he could get that much notice, but he might not.

How do I get my husband to trust me again?

I recently separated with my husband because I cheated on him. We are currently working on our relationship and I am trying to get him to trust me again, but no matter what I say he thinks I am lying. Is there anyway to get him to trust me? I am willing to do anything.How do I get my husband to trust me again?
If you're serious about doing anything, then this is what you do:





You let him deal with it in HIS way, in HIS time.





It takes WORK - and if you thought marriage was difficult before you cheated, that was a picnic compared to the work you need to do now.





What this means is: If he needs to talk about it, YOU TALK.





If he needs time apart, then you give it to him.





If he needs to keep bringing it up all the time, then so be it.





This is the price you have to pay, and if it takes him a year of talking about it every single day, then TOO BAD. You are not allowed to reject him for anything. You can't tell him no, you're done talking about it. If he wants to see your cel phone for texts or to see the bill (because you can easily delete), then you have to show him. If he wants you to check in with him, then DO IT. If he wants to check your email account, then he checks it. You have to bend over backwards to prove yourself to him until he is done - however long it takes.





See, guys are incredibly sensitive where their women are concerned. As backwards as this sounds, they really are like cavemen deep down. We are their 'property' as sex partners, and when you let another man into 'their territory', all he thinks about now is you and him: Whether this other guy was bigger, if he pleased you better than your man, what positions you did it in, how many times you got off, if he's a better kisser, if his body is in better shape, if you think about the guy very much, if you miss him, if you love him, if you swallowed, and most of all: if you did it once, what's to stop you from doing it again? THAT is what you did when you allowed another guy into your body.





It wasn't just that you had sex. See, here's the thing about trust - it's very fragile and once broken, it's really hard to build again. You did more than cheat on your husband - you shredded his faith and belief in you. You took all the warmth, all the love, all that goody good stuff, and the respect he had for you, and took a chainsaw to it. Now, you tell me how you put that back together again.





If you're willing to do anything, then show him.





Best of luckHow do I get my husband to trust me again?
Everyone's made mistakes, understand that, and except that in the future you will make more. Hopefully you won't do anything like this again, but we all live and learn.





Your husband has every right to feel the way that he does. You broke the trust barrier between you two for whatever reason, instead of discussing with him the problems you were having in the marriage, and not knowing if you can trust someone or not, is a hard relationship to be a part of.





I'd give him some time to come around and just BE around more often. No more lying, sneaking around etc. Cut off the other guy COMPLETELY!!! If things don't get better after counseling, or after a decent amount of time has gone by, you may have to just chalk this one up as a loss and come to terms with the fact that your marriage is over. Live and learn girl, live and learn. That's all I gotta say. Good luck and God Bless. Pray on it.





-Knowledge26
He may never actually ';trust'; you again. You can be nice to him, be very sexual, and even tell him that he's ';better'; than the man you had sex with. Begging him to ';trust'; you will waste both of your time. You can use his own insecurities to your own advantage if you're careful enough not to hurt his feelings. Some men are turned on by the idea of their wife getting it on with someone else, even though they either won't admit it, or maybe they don't understand why they're turned on by the thought, so they get mad because they don't know what else to do. If he loves you still, he will eventually get over it. Be patient.
i was in that situation. but we had a long distance relationship. i ended up leaving everything behind and moved back with him so he could know that i was willling to do anything for him and gain his trust back.


you could maybe ask him if there is something you can do. you of course can speak for yourself and say ';you can trust me'; but its just up to him to get over the situation.


it will take time and he might, just might, take it out on you from time to time but if he really loves you he'll be able to look past it and be a bigger person. rather than seek revenge. even thats not an option on his behalf
i honestly dont know if there is a MAGICAL way to make someone trust you again but i know that after my bf cheated on me it was hard to trust him at first but after that it got alittle easier and i had to make myself cause i knew i loved him and i knew i couldnt be with him if i didnt trust him, but just remember ur husband may forgive you but he will never forget what you did, it will always be in the back of his mind
you have to be patient you can't expect him to trust you after whta you put him through ask your eslf how whould you feel if he cheated on you look you have to examine why you did it in the first place and explain it to him an you cannot put the blame on him sheesh that your evern together is saying taht he cares about you a lot the trust is going to ome after you can prove that you love him thoroughly ans it seems you do not at this piont
What you did is the equivilant of puplicly kicking him in the balls repeatedly while simultaneously ripping his heart out. If i were him i could never look at your fazce again, but then again i am selfish, i see no point in carrying around a hurt like that with me, waking up to it everyday and going to sleep with it at night...if he still talks to you thank your gods....but dont push it.
Get on your knees and beg. Let your life be an open book for him to view and don't lie about anything. ANYTHING!





You are about to lose your husband don't hold back tell him everything that you are feeling. Tell him how he makes you feel when he holds you tight in his arms. Tell him how special it makes you feel when he looks at you with lust in his eyes. Be aggressive and don't hold back.
yep - he has that option - he doesn't trust you for good reason. If you are ever caught in so much as a half truth - you will be condemned with good reason - stay your course and if you are willing to listen to his insecurities caused by you - it may just work out in the long run
Stay the course it will take a lot of time just be the women he fell in love with again.Treat him as you would like to be treated and never tell him the sex was better than him.
tell him everything. don't hide anything. tell him things he wouldn't otherwise find out about. let him look at your phone and computer or anything else he is curious about.
No. Personally I would never even bother trying to work it out after someone did something like that.
1-time





#2-he needs to want to trust you again





Try counsling together.
He might never trust You the same but if you keep being completely honest it will get better. Good luck.
counseling, together and separate.
If he is still suspicious like, a week or so after the cheating,





he'll always be suspicious.





You sure have to put up with a lot with that guy. sheesh...

How do I ask my husband to shave down there?

Trying to keep it clean for Yahoo however, I like to you know and I am tired of him not trimming his downstairs. I woulod be done there alot more but just don't like hair in my mouth.





Guys, what is a good way to ask him to trim?How do I ask my husband to shave down there?
You can try a couple approaches, you can tell him that you think it would be really sexy if he shaved. And you can tell him that your friends husband shaved and she really liked it. And you thought it would be fun to try.


Or you can go up to him and say you know I really like giving you oral sex, but I don't like how I get hair in my mouth, plus I would think it would be really fun for you to shave.


Just try talking to him about it, without putting any blame on him or anything, and make it sound fun and sexy and most likley he'll do it.


Guy are funny that way, if you flatter us and make it seem fun, we'll do it. Well most of the time.


I hope this helped.





-ConnorHow do I ask my husband to shave down there?
Just be completely open and honest with him and tell him that you noticed that he hasn't been maintaining his upkeep. Make sure to use I statements, for example - ';I noticed that your pubic area has gotten hairier'; or something to that effect opposed to - ';You don't shave anymore, you use to keep it trimmed and now you don't? Why don't you trim anymore?'; . Using I statements keeps judgements away and makes conversations more smoother and the answer you are looking for will fall into your lap. - not literally. :P





Good luck.
Shave, or trim, yourself. Close to the same amount of hair you'd like to see on him. To make things interesting for him, take a shower with him, go through your normal routine (shave your legs) and then when you're done with your legs, but the shave gel, or foam, on your pubic area and hand him the razor. Guide him on how to shave you and when he's done, rinse off and let him feel your smoothness. Then, get the shave gel again and put a dollop on your hand and reach for him down there and spread it around. Take the razor from him and say, ';My turn.'; Hopefully, he'll be willing to reciprocate. If he says, ';no way!'; ask him if he's willing to trim and that you don't like getting his hairs in your mouth. If he still says no, hold out on the oral sex until he does something about the forest he's cultivating down there. The most important part of all of this is to COMMUNICATE why you're doing what you're doing. Hope this helps.
show him some videos of the porn actors who have shaved and let him see how it enhances their endowments.


hint to him that his can be seen as bigger by do that also.


well that might not be the best for to suggest for him to look @ other men. sorta gay, huh?





aah, aah, tell him that the summer is coming up and shaving down there will keep him cooler. I can see his excuse- ';I've been doing without it all this time why start?';








Baybee just tell him that you would like for it done so that you can give him a better fellitio job.
Use your feminine wiles to make him think he has to shave down there to make you happy. Trust me, it comes naturally.


You know, like when he comes home and is really stressed ask for sex, but when he takes it off, just look at it, and exaggerate, be like ';Ahh, you have hamster on your penis!'; or something like that. I'd shave down there to make my woman happy.
This isn't coming from a guy, but I have no doubt that if you tell him you'd spend an endless amount of time on him down there, he would most likely comply with your request. Do you shave? If so, it doesn't seem fair that he wouldn't do the same for you. My boyfriend keeps shaved down below all the time and he can't imagine being all hairy again. I agree with you, not wanting to have all that hair in your mouth. It's so much more inviting and soft when it's completely shaved. Good luck.
just ask, or offer him to trim or shave you if you can do him also. hey i would whatever it takes to have my girl ';down there'; more often . lots of guys dont like to shave it because of the itching when it comes back but you can get a nice tight trim with scissors
Ask him if he likes the way you are shaved. When he says ';Yes,of course...';, then say that you like it too when he trims himself. Also tell him that you love to go down on him when he is nicely trimmed. No normal guy will turn down a great offer like that.
Just say, ';Let's try something new';! Then whip out the trimmer and take off as much as you want. Believe me, if it gets you down there more often, he will be all for it.





Remember, just trim, don't shave.
This is very tough. I would just let him know what u told us. Tell him that you don't like it and if he did trim it that you would spend more time down there. Hope this helps
Next time you are at your local big box store with him, hand him a Norelco Bodygroom and tell him you ';don't like hair in your teeth.'; He'll get the hint. I did...
Tell him his front yard is too bushy and is he doesn't cut it you not coming over to play no more.
Just tell him '; your stuff will be more beautiful without pubic hair';
just tell him how yu feel tell him if you keep it cleanehe should to
TELL HIM ULL GIVE HIM A BLO*W j*OB IF HE DOES


ID SHAVE MY FACE OFF IF U SAID THAT BELIVE ME IT WILL WORK

How can I get my husband to last longer in the bedroom?

We have been married 7 years and together for 10. Our marriage is wonderful but he c@ms too fast. Ive tried some things and I sometimes feel cheated. I give him oral until he c@ms but then he cant go again. Ive tried holding back on the things I do so he doesnt get overly excited but he c@ms while giving me oral. What can I do to help him gain control.How can I get my husband to last longer in the bedroom?
Does that also happen when you 4play? I read in a book once that in order for a woman to c@m at the same time a man does, 4play helps. Also, my man does this alot, when he feels like he is c@ming before me, he switches positions or he stops for a sec and gives me more 4play. Also, my man tried Viagra, and he is a young guy in his 20's, and he went on and on and on all night. I was the one tired the next day lol... There are many options, books, etc. I would research online, maybe google it.





Good Luck!!How can I get my husband to last longer in the bedroom?
Tell him to slow down. He has to learn to control his orgasm. Tell him to try to hold back. Most men could C@m in 3 minutes if you let them. He just has to learn to control in, when he feels like he is going to C@M he may need to stop for a minute or 2. Then start again. They make tons of stuff at S%26amp;X shops for stuff like that. Gels, condoms, ext.
He needs to do kegel exercises several times a day.


You need to make sure you DO NOT make him feel bad or inadequate, much of his problem is mental


Also, try having more sex and try teasing him throughout the day so that he can build up a tolerance.
It may help for him to masturbate an hour or two before you have sex. All males need recovery time between orgasms. Based on what you said, his recovery time is too long for a single sex session. So, he may need to plan ahead and masturbate well before you have sex.
There is a commercial called ';Extendz';


He might want to talk to a doctor could be medical reason.


It seems he needs to think of other things when he getting close. And practice that often. He might be waiting too long between sexual encounters.
There are some rings for men to put on their, ''thing'' so they wont come so easily . ( sex ,stores) Try it it really works. If not , try having sex more then once a day , morning and night, that should help him. Good luck.
There may be useful information here:





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If you can orgasm with oral why even worry about intercourse?





I prefer oral anyway.





Intercourse just doesn't do it for me!
I've had an ';o'; from giving my wife oral...I enjoyed making her feel good.





Trojan makes a condom with a desensitizing gel inside of it. try those out. I think they were called extended pleasure.
He orgasms while giving you oral? Whoa sounds like a 15 year old boy. Sorry dont have any advice for that.
I wish I had your problem...

lancome

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What should I get my husband for our first wedding anniversary?

I rather foolishly said that we should stick to tradition and get token gifts to do with 'paper' as this is the one year anniversary symbol in our wedding book. Does anyone have any ideas of personal presents I could give him? It doesn't have to be expensive. Thank you very much!What should I get my husband for our first wedding anniversary?
if you guys are planning on have kids one dayor already have kids, it might be wise to buy im a really nice camera. Hell want to capture everything they do. in meantime he can take pictures of you and the things you do together.What should I get my husband for our first wedding anniversary?
Traditionally your 1st wedding anniversary is paper and you could buy tickets to a favorite game or band, even tickets for a trip away.





You could put together a collage of your first year together, or make 365 paper origami hearts for every day of your first year!





More ideas here


http://www.anniversary-gifts-by-year.com…





Happy Anniversary!
I used shutterfly to create a calendar. You can import your own pictures and you can put your own special days on there. I put the anniversary of our first date, the first time we kissed, and the date I knew for sure he was the one for me. Also, under the pictures you can put your own captions. I used lines from our favorite poems and songs, as well as some inside jokes. It was a very personal gift, and it was even made of paper (traditional 1st anniversary gift). I think I spent $20 on it.
Create one. Since this is your 1st anniversary, do up a slide show with pics of both of you prior to marriage and after marriage. This is your love story. compose a song too with lyrics of both of you in it and this will be your song. it will be really nice and personal and only one of its kind in this world. check out this site for some ideas. www.my-song.ca
This may not be helpful to you, but my husband and I didn't do anniversary gifts. Our anniversary is one month after Christmas - needless to say we were strapped for cash. We have so many birthdays and other occassions to buy for in our family that we decided exchanging gifts for our anniversary would be silly. Instead we had a romantic dinner out followed by sex. Honestly, nothing says I love you more than those 2 things. My husband is not big on collecting things so that's we why don't do presents all the time. Just birthdays.
If you have kids, get a baby sitter, and for 3 days rent a nice hotel room and get some sexy lingerie and just enjoy!


It's like a little mini vacation, and it probably won't cost more than $300, and it'd be a really deep time where you two can bond.


It'd be really special =)
What about an oil on canvas painting from your favorite photo? I think it's a really great personalized gift.
Scrapbook


Book


Nut's Mag (aparently men like those)


something wooden since thats what paper is made of?
Dual Time-Zone Watches for Travelers
i am sure he would like chocolates or some nice officewear or a watch go with something he loves
wallet or colonge