Thursday, July 29, 2010

How can I get my husband to last longer in the bedroom?

We have been married 7 years and together for 10. Our marriage is wonderful but he c@ms too fast. Ive tried some things and I sometimes feel cheated. I give him oral until he c@ms but then he cant go again. Ive tried holding back on the things I do so he doesnt get overly excited but he c@ms while giving me oral. What can I do to help him gain control.How can I get my husband to last longer in the bedroom?
Does that also happen when you 4play? I read in a book once that in order for a woman to c@m at the same time a man does, 4play helps. Also, my man does this alot, when he feels like he is c@ming before me, he switches positions or he stops for a sec and gives me more 4play. Also, my man tried Viagra, and he is a young guy in his 20's, and he went on and on and on all night. I was the one tired the next day lol... There are many options, books, etc. I would research online, maybe google it.





Good Luck!!How can I get my husband to last longer in the bedroom?
Tell him to slow down. He has to learn to control his orgasm. Tell him to try to hold back. Most men could C@m in 3 minutes if you let them. He just has to learn to control in, when he feels like he is going to C@M he may need to stop for a minute or 2. Then start again. They make tons of stuff at S%26amp;X shops for stuff like that. Gels, condoms, ext.
He needs to do kegel exercises several times a day.


You need to make sure you DO NOT make him feel bad or inadequate, much of his problem is mental


Also, try having more sex and try teasing him throughout the day so that he can build up a tolerance.
It may help for him to masturbate an hour or two before you have sex. All males need recovery time between orgasms. Based on what you said, his recovery time is too long for a single sex session. So, he may need to plan ahead and masturbate well before you have sex.
There is a commercial called ';Extendz';


He might want to talk to a doctor could be medical reason.


It seems he needs to think of other things when he getting close. And practice that often. He might be waiting too long between sexual encounters.
There are some rings for men to put on their, ''thing'' so they wont come so easily . ( sex ,stores) Try it it really works. If not , try having sex more then once a day , morning and night, that should help him. Good luck.
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If you can orgasm with oral why even worry about intercourse?





I prefer oral anyway.





Intercourse just doesn't do it for me!
I've had an ';o'; from giving my wife oral...I enjoyed making her feel good.





Trojan makes a condom with a desensitizing gel inside of it. try those out. I think they were called extended pleasure.
He orgasms while giving you oral? Whoa sounds like a 15 year old boy. Sorry dont have any advice for that.
I wish I had your problem...
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