today is our wedding anniversary what do i do with him.i bought him a present and card and a red rose but ive heard nothing from him today his been at work all day his not bothered to come home early.What do i do my husband has for gotten our wedding anniversary?
Were you setting a trap for him wondering if he would remember? This morning you should have said ';Happy Anniversary'; before he left for work. My husband and I were married 11 years last month. We didn't buy each other a card or anything. We went out to dinner and enjoyed a glass of wine with each other. As long as you love and appreciate each other the cards and gifts do not matter. I'd rather have a loving husband forgets a date than a jerk that remembers everything. What do i do my husband has for gotten our wedding anniversary?
If you guys haven't made any plans (which I assume you have not), just give him a gift when he comes home from work and wish him a happy anniversary. Just because he forgot the specific date, doesn't mean he doesn't care about you. My husband and I don't mark our anniversary in any specific way, but we do care about each other, and we make an effort to nurture our marriage all year round. One day doesn't matter so much. If he's prone to forgetting dates, just remind him next time as it gets close, and make plans together.
HE'S WORKING. IT'S HIS JOB.
Good grief. Another clingy woman who assumes that he feels the same way about an event and is jumping to conclusions because the day isn't matching her fantasy about what it should look like.
If you wake up tomorrow morning and he still hasn't acknowledged your anniversary, you can complain that he forgot. Until then, quit projecting onto him and wait until he's actually had a chance to spend some time with you.
Oh, sh*t. Well, try to come up with some creative way to remind him without coming right out and saying so. Maybe you could call him up and ask for a particular restaurant. Or ask him to take you to a significant place (like your first kiss spot). That way, if he is planning something for later, you won't spoli it. If he truly forgot, those things might make him remember. Hopefully, he's not totally bone-headed and will pick up damn quick.
While he deserve to be punished for forgetting, don't let it ruin the night for you. Do what you can to enjoy your anniversary, then deal with him afterward.
Men aren't as in tuned with these specific dates as us women are. Send him a friendly reminder, call him and wish him a happy anniversary and tell him how much you love him. Hey, he might even pick up something nice on the way home from work. ;)
Some people don't even really know the date unless they look it up on the calender. It may not be that he forgot it was your anniversary (I'm sure he remembers the day you were married) but maybe he just lost track of the days.
Its hard for men, don't get mad at him. He may still be doing something for it. But you could text him and say ';Happy Anniversary';, that way if he did forget he can still go get something and you two can have a nice night, free of fighting. And this way you don't even have to know if he forgot or not and you can assume that he didn't....its a win/win for everyone.
Give him until tonight. If he genuinely has forgotten and feels bad about it, let him make it up to you. If not, pop down to the shops tomorrow and buy yourself something that you want, that you know he can just about afford, and thank him sweetly.
And tell him if he ever does that again, it will cost ten times as much.
Guys don't always remember these things you know. It doesn't mean he doesn't love you.....and that that day wasn't memorable.....just means he's going to be in the ';DOG HOUSE!';. Don't get upset.......when he comes home and if he's forgotten....just do what you were going to do..be nice..let him squirm...No reallly. You can avoid a big fight if you just go on with your plans and make it a surprise! He will ' feel' like getting you something as opposed to 'obligated' if you don't get mad at him for being forgettful.
Just wait. He may have a surprise planned. If not, be nice and sweet. Give him the gift and rose. If you are sweet, he will really feel like an ****** for forgetting. You might get something really good then. Be gracious and surprised if that happens.
do him a favor and call him and wish him a happy anniversary as a reminder, if you don't you're setting yourself up for a huge row.
I don't know, call him and say Happy Anniversary. My husband and I both don't keep up with anniversaries. A few days after our 2 year anniversary I said..';Hey..wasn't --- our 2 year anniversary?'; lol.
Will he be coming home to you? If so, then he hasn't forgotten who he is married to. Which is more important: a date in history or you two being together.
How long have you been married?
And working away to provide for his family isn't a bad thing. Just thank your lucky stars he's that devoted to you.
have some patience maybe there's more to it then you know and what he's shown..
but honestly if there is nothing in store don't be such a poor sport about it.. be happy he made it home to you =)
It can be very embarrassing. I forgot my wedding anniversary once and she fed my dinner to the dog. I wouldn't have minded, but we haven't even got a dog!
get dressed to the nines
and be waiting for him to come home
have your gift and rose in your hands
he will feel so awful he will never forget again
chalk it up to experience
guys can be a bit rubbish at things like this
He might be playing it cool and be ready to surprise you. Or more likely he has completly forgotten. Given him the presents and he will feel guilty for the next few weeks at least.
Feed his dinner to the dog and make him pay for the next few weeks. This is your ace up the sleeve next time he gets the hump about something
Enjoy!!!
Just call him and ask him if he wants to go out to dinner for your anniversay.
Be patient, as the day is not over yet. He may have a nice, romantic surprise for you apon his arrival.....
';forgotten'; is one word.
He,s maybe celebrating with his pals !!!!!!
That's men for you!!
the day is young it might be a surprise
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