How do I keep my husband interested in TTC?

My husband and I have been TTC for 2 months and this will be our third. He absolutely hates the fact that having sex to conceive is so calculated. He is dreading having to try again starting on Saturday. He wants to have a baby but he just doesn't like planning out which days we'll have sex. How do I add spontaneity back into our sex life when we are TTC so that he is happier?How do I keep my husband interested in TTC?
Simple, dont tell him when your ovulating... obviously he's going to know when your tryin to jump on him 3 times a day lol but at least its not planned... not to him anyway. Also make sure that you make the first step and initiate sex when your NOT ovulating. At least then he will know that you do actually enjoy sex and your not simply doing it to get pregnant. Suprise him tonight, a nice dinner, then a massage etc.


Good luck hun, TTC can be very stressfull on both :)How do I keep my husband interested in TTC?
Easy. You take charge of the TTC and make a deal that if you ask for sex during a certain week you get it. If he asks for it a different week he gets it.


Also get him involved in stuff like taking vitamin with you. Something he sees he can do now to have a positive effect on the TTC. We pop prenatals and men's daily vitamins together in the morning both as a reminder and a team effort.


Why not get some cute undies to wear next time. A little planning and foreplay will still get the babydancing done. Guys can feel the pressure of having to perform, and sometimes it can take several months, so get out of the rut before you get into it.


Keep up the sensual side of the relationship and keep him wanting some.
oh hun, i understand how critical it is to have a same level of enthu to have babies between both male n female...


The only way is explain ur husband that u too hate to have sex on demand. But there is no other option except to make up both of ur minds to have ur dream come true..Work on it..


And as a female, u can try dressing up in the way ur husbands likes u in, cook his favourite dishes, and pamper him a lot ,,do all these from 4 days before ovulation, on the day of ovulation, and also 2 days after it....(Lol, not that u should not do these the rest of the days,,)





My husband is very eager to have a baby. So i make sure he knows everytihng about my BBT chart, OPK results, etc., He pretty much accurately calculates my ovulation thru calender..


But down the line, where there is a will, there is a way..Make sure ur husband has a strong will to have a baby. If no, u encourage him to be..


Hope u have successful pregnancy ...


Good luck
i have been through this with my husband. the only difference is mine was an iui and it was scheduled. he hated going to the dr office and doing his deed in the cup and leaving the clinic with everyone knowing that he just masterbated.





this round we are going natural but i just didnt tell him i got the smiley face on the ovulation kit. although, i do suspect that a red flag went off in his head when i woke him up this morning at 440am for a quickie before i left for work.
just jump his bones and dont tell him when and dont plan it so much itll cause stress! ive been tryine for 10 mths!! stress wont help