How can I help my husband to get his son motivated?

My stepston will be 26 yrs old this Sunday. He's the father of a 4 yr old and an 18 month old and all three of them live with us. My stepson has had 1 job in the last year. My husband has talked-and yelled-until he's ';blue in the face';. If it were just the 2 little ones, my husband would have kicked the son out a long time ago. My stepson needs a wake up call or maybe some kind of scare tactic. Any suggestions?How can I help my husband to get his son motivated?
Give him a nice kick in the pants. The son not your husband. If that doesn't work, use that kick and kick him out the door. No use having a bum around and teach his kids bad things.How can I help my husband to get his son motivated?
if he's not doing anything with his life but making babies, some1 has to put their foot down and let him know he has to get on or get out... From the sound of it, he is not being a good example for his children anyway. As a grandparent and decent human being, I understand you want the best for your grandchildren but if the mother is in the picture, have her take responsibility for THEIR children and you guys as grandparents do all u can to help but it is not your job to raise and provide for your grandchildren when your son is apparently perfectly capable but just too lazy to make something happen for himself.
Well as hard as it is your going to have to tell him to grow up or move out. Make him find a job, pay rent and help out around the house. As hard as it is your not doing him any favors letting him sit around the house.
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Show him the door straight away