How can I get my husband to stop airing our dirty laundry?

My husband has told people at his work some personal things about me and our relationship in the past. All of his friends end up knowing about arguments, etc. I am beginning to feel as if I cannot trust him to keep our business OUR business. Help!How can I get my husband to stop airing our dirty laundry?
Ironic that you would air your dirty laundry the the entire internet.How can I get my husband to stop airing our dirty laundry?
The relationship between the husband and wife is a unique relationship. There is no other relationship that is so close and so intimate. Husband and wife should not just be partners of each other; they should be best friends, best companions, best associates, and everything else that you can think of. They share joys and sorrows, success and failures, happiness and sadness. They are with each other in health and sickness. He is violating trust between you tell him to stop, trust is very hard to regain.
It has to be a real letdown and sore spot when personal things are revealed outside of the marriage. There has been a new saying for the last couple of years that goes like this ';what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas'; and I firmly feel that ';what happens in a marriage stays in that marriage.';





I am going to guess that your Husband has a low self esteem and he wants to let others know his side of the story first so he can feel good about his part in the arguments. He wants to make you out as the guilty one.





I don't think there is anyone who can get him to stop this bad habit unless it would be a counselor that both of you go to visit with.





I don't know what to tell you except that I would not put up with it. Either he go to counseling with you and change his ways or ';Hit the road Jack'; and don't come back no more, no more.





Unless you are the very guilty party, and even if you are, good men do not do their wash out in public. Take care and I hope it works out for both of you; that is if he is worth saving.
Tit for tat. You just go ahead and do exactly the same as he did, but being selective so that he'd be the one found wanting. Assuming you have some mutual friends, he'd probably hear some juicy tit-bids from them not to his liking. See how fast he'd come to you for a reckoning. That's the time for an effective heart-to-heart.
Funny. That's usually what guys say about their girls!!!


They probably feels that he can talk to his friends about anything and everything.


Sorry. dont know what to tell you. some people don't mind telling everyone everything, some do.
Let him know that it really bothers you. Tell him it is ok for him to talk to just his best friends but not just everybody. Some things are ment to stay just between you. You do it and see if he likes it.
Personal problems should never be discussed at work plus he is only making you look bad to others. That isn't nice! Tell him this bothers you and he needs to stop this immediately
He might be seeking advise from his co-workers. It can be tough to hold stuff like that in...try talking to him about how it makes you feel and see if you guys can work things out privately.
Well get even. talk about him with your friends and make him find out see if he likes it. That is the best way so he can learn.
Ha I don't see why people trust each other to begin with it's human nature to be deceptive
Have you tried talking to him about not telling people?
talk to him about it %26amp; tell him you're upset