How do I find out if my husband is having an affair while on deployment?

Is there a way to check this out without having to get people that I know involved? He is acting so strange and is due to come home shortly. It never would have crossed my mind at all with him, but I can't think of any other reason for this behavior.How do I find out if my husband is having an affair while on deployment?
Here is the best answer: it doesn't matter.





The only thing that matters is you don't trust him and you are having to live with this pain and fear, and if you don't trust him then you will always always feel this way, no matter what.





I suggest talking with him after he settles in. Something really f***ked might have happened that is affecting how he's acting. Try to be selfless and see if he confides the truth to you.





It may not be his fault that you feel this way, but if nothing he says or does makes you feel better about it after about a week or so, then move on. You can't be happy and distrustful at the same time.





:) good luckHow do I find out if my husband is having an affair while on deployment?
before he arrives home, have something installed on your computer that will keep track of every email he gets or sends, all of the sites he visited, every activity. men don't admit jack-so this is about the only way. btw--yes there are prostitutes in muslem countries even whore houses. J.B. is correct, and lots of female whores are in the military. We were military they're a bunch of dogs in heat.
I can think of another reason....coming home is stressful...he does not know what you are going to be like...the stress of just readjusting...my son went through some stuff coming home...he is single but still stressed out....my other son is married and he and his wife went through the same thing...and maybe that is why you are thinking the way you are...I don't think there is anyway to ';search'; without involving someone who is there with him...but I think you need to take a deep breath talk to someone you are close to and relax...Good luck
Hire a private eye. Pay one of his buds to snitch on him for you. Go to where he is deployed, dress in disguise, and watch his every move. If he is in a Muslim country, he's probably not cheating on you with a local, it would have to be someone out on deployment too. If they are whores, hes probably doing that over here in the states too. Men are dogs. Even the nicest ones will falter.
dont get stressed or let it bother you right now , just enjoy his home coming and see what happens fro there , do not start letting him think you believe he was cheating , if he wasnt that will ruin his coming back home , if he was it will eventually come out
Really no way to know for sure unless he confesses or you find indisputable and unexplainable proof, like photos or videos of him in the act.. You've probably got no way to prove it.
What behavior do you mean? There isn't a way unless you ask him when he comes home.
95% of deployed people knows where all the whore are..