Tuesday, August 24, 2010

How can I get my lazy husband to look for work?

I have a degree in Child Development and have been busting my butt looking for a job. I have even applied at Walmart and Starbucks. He makes fun of me for applying at such places. I would rather work anywhere than freeload and get government assistance. What can't he have the same mentality?How can I get my lazy husband to look for work?
you can't. something has to light a fire under him, and i would think if it is so awful that you have to work at wal-mart or starbucks, that would do it. meaning, he would think, 'my wife has to work at wal-mart?' anyway, it could be deeper, do you think he's depressed? the economy is really terrible right now. the job losses are way worse in this recession than before.How can I get my lazy husband to look for work?
You can't force a person to have work ethic or self-pride. Some people just have an entitlement mentality that leads them to believe it's okay to rely on other people to make up for their misfortune without trying to do for themselves. If he's one of those people there really isn't anything you can do to change him. Don't, however, let him make you feel bad for taking a lesser paying job outside of the field you're trained in. You are the bigger person here, and you have the right attitude. I'm an IT professional with an advanced computer science degree and didn't find it beneath me to wait tables, cashier and scrub toilets with a cleaning service when I was laid off at one point. It all comes down to a matter of pride and wanting to help oneself. If he can't see that then he is the one to be mocked an pitied.
Girl you need to tell his lazy *** to get a job or get ghost. Nobody wants to support a freeloading mooch with no goals or aspirations. In the end, it'll just bring you down. Ask him how can he make fun of someone applying for jobs ANYWHERE when he isn't even looking for one. Starbucks or not, at least you'll be making money, which is more than can be said for him.
Because he is lazy. You can't get him to look for work if he isn't motivated then he just isn't motivated. If you are content and in love then you need to just accept it.
Tell, him unless he goes to look for a job, You be working at the Gentleman's Club, , to support the two missing incomes..
Sucks that your husband makes fun of you.


Doesn't seem like a good husband to me.
Take a walk and let him fend for himself.
Kick him out until he gets one

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