Sunday, August 22, 2010

How can I tell if my husband is checking out singles websites?

I have been thinking my husband is checking out singles websites for a while now. I don't know how to be for sure though. I would like to know how to check it out if possible. Can you please help me?How can I tell if my husband is checking out singles websites?
It might be next to impossible. You might be able to get a key logging program, but he might find it. You can get hidden cameras disguised as air fresheners that plug into your wall off amazon, but it would be hard to see anything as your husband will likely be blocking the screen and the quality would only be good enough to make out pictures. Every guy who has used a computer for a year knows all about hiding his tracks on the internet by deleting his history and cookies. If you have Google Chrome, he probably uses Incognito mode which means none of the website go into history or cookies. If he is stupid enough to delete ALL history you could put him on the spot by asking him why. He'll probably just say to save space though.





The best thing might be to ask him about it if you have a reason to be suspicious. If not then just chill.How can I tell if my husband is checking out singles websites?
If your husband knows how to cover his tracks on the computer, you probably can't unless you actually see him do it. If he doesn't know how to do so, the computer tracks webpages that have been visited. Check the browser's history and cookie files.





If you suspect that he's checking out singles websites, the best thing is to talk with him about your relationship. Don't confront or accuse him about visiting singles sites, but check in with him and ask him how you and he are doing in your relationship and happy he is with your relationship. That'll help you get to the root of any such behavior, if it is happening.
You'd have to check the history on your computer, assuming he doesn't have his own private log-in.





Why don't you just ask him?





Also, I think its a stretch between ';looking'; and doing. Web surfing is a very voyeuristic activity and often ends at just that. Talk to your husband first and try to refrain from seeming panicked, judgmental or paranoid. He may be cagey with you if he feels you might restrict his access or start accusing him. Don't make trouble where there may not necessarily be any.
Check the history folder. If he deletes it, check the cookies. Just do a search on your computr for the ';cookies'; folder; see what's in there.





If he deletes that too (though ost people forget them), you can download a keylogger or similar tracking software for free usually, thta will monitor everything he does. Do your homeowrk on them; make sure you download legitimate software and not any trojans.





Good luck, hope he's not doing it!
if you can check email normally when someone signs up for a single website it will send an email or if someone on a singles network sends them a message it will give them a email.








as for IM check history and if you see someone you don't know look at their conversation and you should be able to figure out if he is cheating.
check the history on the computer then on the questionable sights make up a fake name and see what he is up to. My cousin did this to her boyfriend and found out he was cheating. Make sure you add your husband if you do make a fake name. Just because he is on that website doesn't mean he is cheating.
you can download a program called mcgruff.org. It's a site for keeping tabs on what your kids are looking at and it will email you a list of all the sites that were visited on that one pc. it has no icons on your pc, there are no traces of it in the add/remove programs. and you can set up what you want flagged such as language, violence sex etc. the free portion of it will only let you see what was on for the last 24 hours. But be careful because you might not like what you find. good luck
there is an awesome new program you can buy that will memorize every key he types and every click he makes no matter what he deletes.


ot was made so parents can monitor their kids on the internet but was soon picked up by curious spouses. you can buy online or in best-by.


just DL the program on your comp and let him do the rest. check what sites and what was typed nightly and you will surly find out.
go into the http part and click the arrow and the end and look at what he's been looking up. Mine has been doing that aswell. If you know his password, check his emails because the singles sites send a confirmation email. You can also look up singles sites and search for him by zip code! good luck
As others have mentioned, the browser history would be a place to start. However, if he's good at hiding it, he may be clearing it out.





There is a program that you can get that you can install secretly. It lets you trace what anybody has been doing on a computer. I can't think of the name right now, but you can google it pretty easily.





By the way,


*** MILDRED SENT ME***
Check your history, right click on your E on the desk top or what ever your using, firefox so on. There will be a drop down box with history in it, or open a page and got to help search history. It will tell you all the website people have gone to.
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I really hope that your husband isn't checking out singles websites but I think that you should ask him first and if he denies it (and if your sure that he is lying) I suggest you go onto the internet and scroll down the toolbar at the top.
Ask him after checking the history, but don't let him know you checked it. If there is no history, or very little, chances are good he is trying to hide something, whether or not it is ';singles sites'; is another question.
History can be deleted two best ways check email sent box and trash for signs second install a keylogger. perfectkeylogger is perfectly hidden and will record all keystrokes emails and sites visited and the only one wha can access it or even know it is there is you
well you can check the history on your web browser. I would need to know which browser you use....(safari, internet explorer, firefox) or you can just ask him. You may feel bad about sneaking around almost spying on him by checking the web history
Why don't you pause from worrying about how to see if your husband is checking out singles websites and spend more time looking in the mirror and try to figure out why he might be looking in the first place.
Look through the history on the internet or look through some singles websites for your husbands information. you could also look online, by typing in your husbands name or something.
Check the history.... or if hes smart enoght to allready delete the history...


Go to tools and try to find a button to say disable deleating history.


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hope it works out!
you can look were you press the back button arrow click that and look at his history or go to system files and then go to disk clean up then go to look at files
Check the history, but just be prepared. If he is deleting it he is hiding something but it might just be porn.
Well in order to know you would need to get his email info. usually single sites. email with matches or if someone is interested.
There should be something wrong with your relationship, something missing if he is feeling the need to do so.
download a free keylogger, it records everything thats typed on your computer. make sure you get a password protected one.





of course the history is a good way to find out, but he might know how to clear the history.
Check the history on your computer.
Go into the history. Click on it and you can see where he's been visiting
Check cookies and history.
check the history on your computer.
Check the history.





Google his email address, nicknames, and real name.
Check the history and cookies in your computer if he does not clear them out.
you can put a spy watch on his computer it will follow all his moves and if he's not super computer savy he'll never know check out any online spy store .good luck
press ctrl and h





or just look at the history





but don't be so paranoid though.

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