How do I tell my husband I want to start a family?

My husband and I had decided to wait another year or two to try and start our family but now I kind of want to start sooner. I know he doesn't feel quite ready yet but I also know that he would do anything for me. He is getting out of the Marines after nine and a half years in, and I know that he wants to wait because we will not make as much money after he gets out. I don't want to stress him out by saying that I want a baby sooner. I love him so much and I'm willing to wait if it's going to be hard on him and make him feel like his financial responsibilities just got harder! Anybody got any ideas of how to talk? Any guys out there -- how would you want your wife to tell you, and still be respectful of your feelings?How do I tell my husband I want to start a family?
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Ask your husband if he likes kids. Further, whenever you both go out shopping, point towards the lovely kids and tell him how cute they are. You will need to increase his affection for kids. Some men are not very open towards fatherhood so you will have to inculcate those feelings in him. Show him a few pictures of cute kiddies. Give him indirect hints. Tell him how much you love him and how much you would love a miniature version of him! A baby! This one mostly ticks the minds of all men! If your husband is religious, hint him on the blessings children bring to a couple. Financial responsibilities don't really begin until the babies are out and are at least more than 6 months. That's a lot of time. You will have to start out positively first and I am sure you can convince him into this. If you need any more ideas- add me on Yahoo! Messenger! Would love to give you more ideas!





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well, let's see.....i would simply tell him!!





i mean, he's your husband...tell him that you've been really thinking about it and you'd like to start trying sooner than you had oringinallly planned. don't tell him you want a baby, just TALK to him about it...


it's a marriage...communication...compromise...鈥?solving...





so just bring it up.


my husband isn't keen on the idea of having another baby in 1-2 years, but i want our kids to be about 3 years apart....so, tough cookies for him, but that's how our marriage works. now, obviously, if it isn't the right time, then we'll wait, but there really isn't ever a ';right'; time.....





just mention it


';ya know, i was thinking of having a baby sooner than 1-2 years...what do you think?';





p.s.


why is he getting out after 9.5 years in??? i mean, he's almost to the finish line of really good retirement....why would you do that???
I think you should just tell your husband. It si never good to hold in how you are feeling and what you want.


Men are never ready until they actually hold that little one in their arms and then everything changes. It is scary for them... I know scary for us but woman have that built in natural way about them that needs to care for little ones.


Just talk to him and give him your reasons.


Have a plan and go to him with it.





Good Luck.
';Honey, I want to start a family with you. What do you think?';





Short, sweet and to the point and its an open-ended question to start the line of communication.
just sit him down and tell him the truth, honesty is the best way, you never know maybe he feels the same way as you do....

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