How do I get my husband to stop helping the lady neighbor around the house?

and start working on our own house? He certainly hops to it anytime she needs something...but never does anything his own wife ask?How do I get my husband to stop helping the lady neighbor around the house?
A good conversation starter to get his attention would be to start making out with one of the guy neighbors! :) Then you can say that you were just helping him around the house ;)How do I get my husband to stop helping the lady neighbor around the house?
there are so many variables that this situation could be about. But since all those details are missing, I'll just answer what was given.


Maybe your husband helps out more at the neighbors because he feels genuinely appreciated when he does something there. He doesn't feel obligated or nagged into doing it or like it's his job to do it, but rather that he is helpful and appreciated for doing it. That's a feeling everyone likes to have.


If the neighbor is an attractive woman, maybe he gets a thrill from being around her or he's horny for her.
i really don't know, but your man is not the only one like that. my hubby is out the door in a flash if the neighbor asks him for a favor or one of his friends needs him, but if i ask him to do something he procrastinates until i try to do it myself. hmm, maybe if he sees you trying to take care of things without him he'll see that he needs to put you first, or you could call a repair man and have them do the job then show your hubby the bill and remind him how much he could've save if he's have just done it like you'd asked him to so many times. also, when you ask don't sound upset, he'll think you're nagging and most men hate that. if anything during dinner be like, hey sweetie, by the way, when you get the chance would you mind fixing -whatever- thanks. sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't depends on the man. good luck!
Isn't it annoying? My husband and his father are the same way, they do everything for others and nothing for their own family. I have told my husband that we will NEVER adopt another family and do all of their work for them. I don't mind helping people out, but you have to draw the line somewhere.
I think it's time for you to have a little one on one conversation with the neighbor. Let her know that you don't appreciate her asking your husband to do things for her. Then tell your husband that you talked to her and if he continues then there will be serious issues.
tell him since he is always so helpful to the neighbor and unavailable to you and your home you are hiring someone to take his place








Then call a handyman .. right in front of him !!








Tell the neighbor ....he will be busy at your home and to get a new helper..give her a phone # to call as well.
Tell him to stop. Tell him that what he is doing in inappropriate and he should put his family first and take care of the things around there. Let her fend for herself. Surely she has a bf that can help her. She does not need him. You do.
The correct answer would be talk to him about it. But I would probably throw a fit and make sure that important things he needs to happen don't. Then I would bring up the things that I need done and how it affects me. But that's just me.
I agree with the previous answer, get some hot young guy round to do a bit of painting, your husband will suddenly start being very attentive to your needs.
Find a better husband who enjoys your company, not one looking to run out the door at every opportunity.
Feed him more garlic. That way when he next works up a sweat over there and that stuff starts oozing out of his pores, she'll think twice about asking him to help again.
possibly the neighbor lady is very sexy
She is probably having plumbing issues.
Hire some hot guy to do your house then maybe he'll want to be more helpful.
tell him. if he doesn't maybe you should talk to the neighbor, and explain the situation.
If you have let him know it ticks you off and it continues then I think Kari's idea is fantastic.
If this is going on then she is paying him in a way you are not.
This sounds like a scene out of ';Desperate Housewife's';. Boy I would be so mad at him and her.
Are you sure that's all he is doing?
i bet she is hot.....lmao