He knows he's attractive and makes his presence felt all the more by his sense of humor. He is more active and responsive outside the home.How would you feel if your husband is good looking and he enjoys the attention of other women?
if it were me i would not like it, but if there are no signs of cheating i wouldn't worry too much about it.How would you feel if your husband is good looking and he enjoys the attention of other women?
it depends if he does it on purpose. if he is naturally funny and outgoing then he can't really help it, plus it is naturally to be more ';on'; when your out. in a relationship your so comfortable with the person even if you are the ';joker'; or outgoing you can relax around them and just be ';at peace'; for lack of a better phrase. My fiance and I joke around but around our friends and my friends i am louder and sillier and just do make more jokes. So don't be upset about your husband for that.
BUT if he is putting himself out to get attention from other women, flirting etc. well that's disrespectful. a guy i liked used to do that he loved attention from women and would flirt constantly with anything with two X chromosomes! it was a really unattractive quality and totally turned me off. If you husband is doing it on purpose talk to him suggest he put himself in your shoes how would he like it if you flirted with other men right in front of him? I'm sure he will curb his behavior if he understands its disrespectful.
The question is how do you feel about it? Is it eating away at you inside? He has problems going on from his past issues and he has found his way of feeling good about himself is to have others take notice of him by using his humor. At home he has dropped that ';mask'; as it is that he is hiding from and is his real self. It may be the one good thing that he has going for him at this point because of the inner turmoil is maybe getting the best of him, it's getting harder and harder for him to keep that mask up. He will say he has no issues but he had one crazy childhood for some reason, was rejected on some level that he had to rely on his wit to make himself feel important or get noticed. There's a lot going on in there.
BAH! Give me a break people...listen to these answers, you are making something out of nothing. The same thing that attracted you to him is now what you are worried about? What did you think would happen, he'd get married and change completely and be a different person? He is who he is...he's attractive, he's personable, he's funny, and he's active outside the house...that is who he is. Quit trying to make something out of nothing.
Guys go through this with women all the time too. If she's pretty she's going to get attention from other guys...be focused on him and what HE does, not on how others respond to him.
It wouldn't impress me much if he was enjoying attention and seeking it by making his ';presence felt'; regarding other women. Being more active and responsive outside your home is..... somehow a little disrespectful to me.
i would not like it at all. that is the first sign of them cheating
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