How do you deal with a husband of a dear friend who is a total jackass?

He makes rude and sexist comments all of the time. He talks about his wife's breasts on a regular basis. One time he told me, her and another friend that we would be a great looking woman if he could put all three of our best traits together. He's offensive, arrogant and self-important. She complains about him a lot but then he says he is sorry and everything is ok until the next time he says something idiotic which is a given. He treats her and other women like objects. What should I do? She is an amazing and beautiful person.How do you deal with a husband of a dear friend who is a total jackass?
Write him a letter that goes a little like this.


Each time you see him produce a copy of the same letter.


Have like 50 people sign a copy and send it to him on a weekly basis. He may get the hint after awhile.





Dear idiot,


. . .In life there are those of us that were not blessed with any social skills. You are one of those people. . . Talking to you is a complete waste of my time. . . Please think before you speak,. . .You will please everyone by keeping quiet and staying to yourself. No one likes you and if you happend to keel over from a heart attack, your own mother would likely turn her nose up and say ';Please pass me a diet coke, deaths do make me thirsty.'; I hope there is a god, as he will likely throw you to the pits of hell for eternity, and allow us HDTV to watch every second and embrace the pleasure we get from your pain.


Yours truly,


MeHow do you deal with a husband of a dear friend who is a total jackass?
Avoid and ignore this guy...Nothing you can do about your friend and him being married she chooses to be with him. Im a very verbal person and i tend to speak whats on my mind with no fear of repercussions...What i would do is look him dead in the eyes and say your an idiot and walk away. But that's me :)
I have a brother in law the same way. I just dish it right back at him. He doesn't know what to do. He hates the fact that I can one up him in the ';crude'; department, because part of it is the shock value and the attention he gets from it. I'm sure it has something to do with a bad case of little dick syndrome as well....
That's a tough one...I think you continue to befriend her, and don't pay one single attention to him....If she happens to bring him up, you could try and change the subject, however once and awhile you may have to listen to what she wants to say....It's just part of being a good friend...
hon, chose not to deal with him; have your friend come to your house or meet you for lunch; YOU don't have to deal with him....
For me, if she were my friend, I would ONLY see her without the husband and I would tell her so. I would explain that I love here and support her honestly, but that I couldn't deal with this guy...
Put a harness on him and hook him up to a plow.
If you find yourself forced to be around him, ignore him. I mean pointedly. Don't talk to him any more than you have to. Don't look at him. Talk to his wife, your friend, and just exclude him from any conversations.





You can be polite, but when he starts the idiotic talk, then just shut him out. Or, you could call him on the carpet and say, ';Do you realize how much what you just said is incredibly offensive?';





Personally, I eat men like that for lunch, but he's married to your friend and for her sake, don't get into a p!ss!ng contest with him.





Mom always told me to never have a battle of wits with an unarmed person.

becca

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