Friday, August 20, 2010

How do I help my husband be more emotionally intimate with me?

He really wants to be, but he's scared and also feels he doesn't know how, because he grew up in an emotionless home.How do I help my husband be more emotionally intimate with me?
I suggest you have him visit survivinginfidelity.com and read how affairs occur and you do the same. Most affairs nowadays occur from someone finding another person to be open and intimate with, which then turns to a feeling of love and/or lust. This other person holds no risk of hurting them because they usually have nothing invested in them. By not being intimate with you, he is shutting that part of himself off from you. Try everything you can think of without nagging him. I would ask him to write things out to you in a journal. Without someone there to react right away, there is a better chance for honesty and not holding back. You could do the same for him too. Let him know that it is the best and only solid way to have a lasting marriage. Good Luck!How do I help my husband be more emotionally intimate with me?
you must of known this before you married him.and you married him anyway.he is going to have to take baby steps and learn as like he was a child.tell him to seek therapy.
Make him happy. Always make him feel that his most important person in your life. So that he will be comfortable with you and he can show what he feel.

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