Friday, August 20, 2010

How do I get my husband to sleep with me?

So we haven't had sex in nearly five days and he doesn't seem to want to initiate anything. What can I do to seduce him? I usually just ask him but that isn't working right now. We've been together for five years if that helps at all.How do I get my husband to sleep with me?
I can understand him saying no for 5 days that is very normal. Sex is like chocolate we love it until we have too much then if its forced on us it just starts to make us feel sick. think of yourself as a very rich very expensive piece of chocolate there is only so much of youhe can handle. Give him a bit of space if necessary go to a sex shop and make a purchase that will benefit you when he is not around and could also be used to add some spice to your sex life when he is!!! but be careful introducing something like this too him as you do not want to upset him. You may be better keeping it for yourself for a while.How do I get my husband to sleep with me?
if you usually sit next to him, sit across from him. use eye contact. don't talk too much. as a matter of fact, say as little as possible about anything. this does not mean be secretive, it means, don't initiate conversation. wear really skimpy clothes, make his favorite food, do some jumping jacks in the living room or bedroom and say how you want to stay fit for him. do some other exercises while he is around. most women have work out videos/dvds in storage, get yours out and use them. offer a full body massage. give him an un-announced happy ending. go from oral to intercourse. have fun.
Five days? Try about five weeks. I am ready to go out of my fricking mind. I don't even understand it. My husband is 7 yrs younger than me, I am not ugly, I am a good wife and still no sex. And I am tired of initiating it and being told he is tired. Screw that. What comes around, goes around.
5 days? Seriously? Are you usually the instigator? He may just not need sex as often as you. A good sex life in a marriage is give and take on how often you do it. Sometimes you have to wait.
5 days is to soon to worry unless you cant wait.im sure u can take care of your own needs for awhile.give him a chance to rest.he,ll be back on it im sure.
Girl, take it easy! maybe he has some personal problems going on, like depression or something. Talk to him before you do anything, plus its only been 5 days...CHILL!
Take your panties off and straddle him while he's watching tv, or just start giving him head. He'll probably want to then.
i would be asking the question why is this happeneing

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